What's the difference between making love and uhm

Don't tell DH, but I don't really think there's a difference.

If I had to separate the two, I would just say that making love = freaking someone you love, but it's all still freaking.
 
To me, the ring changes legal status and emotions involved. You can be loved but not loved enough to put a ring on it.

I've had some intimate, candlelight, soft music sex before that some would consider "making love" but i never called it that. I just called it deep sex.

I've personally never been "in love". Loved a couple people but we just had sex. Good sex, deep sex, freaky sex...but to me it always labeled as sex.

Well its some good wording to make your husband feel special at the very least :grin:
 
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I can see that... but sometimes I want to make love quick. :)

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I think, for me, making love forces me to let my guard down, and truly express myself sexually and sensually. I can love my DH and do, but when he makes love to me, I'm scared to "fully" respond sometimes. There's a vulnerability in making love, it's deep and I'm scared if I let it go for the wrong person, it would have driven me crazy. Lol.


There really is :yep:
 
If I am in love with you, regardless of how kinky the act is, I'm making love to you. If I don't love you, it doesn't matter how tender, romantic, or even sweet what we're doing is, we're not making love, we're phucking. Bottom line.
 
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