MissMeWithThatIsh
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...freaking?
What's the difference between making love and uhm
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QT
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Most of the time my DH and I "make love" and there are times when we just "have sex". Making love is more intimate, but there are times when the passion overcomes you and you just go at it like animals. There's a time for both, but there should always be love for your partner at the center of either act
Pat Mahurr
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About 29 minutes. 
SelahOco
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Seriously? I think it's a matter of where the heart is during the act. I've only been with one person but in the time that I've known him and been with him in that way sometimes I'm trying to express my feelings through my body. And sometimes I'm using him as my man toy. 
But for me, the difference is what's in my mind.
But for me, the difference is what's in my mind.
Dee-Licious
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the intent and sometimes who you doing it with
TCatt86
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A bottle of gin.
Or for me vodka!! What's that song, "If I take one more drink, I'm gon' end up freaking yooouuu"itismehmmkay
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Freaking is more about the destination. Making love is a bit more about the journey; you enjoy each other more.
SparklingFlame
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Freakin=banging
Making love=loving
Making love=loving
TCatt86
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Ok, so one can make love in a rough way?
Radianthealth
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Lynn84
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TCatt86
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Yes you can
Ok I was just asking because I was absolutely in love with my ex and we would get crazy with each other, it made me love him more...
Oh I miss that sucker sometimes.
EbonyYoungin517
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Well in my case the "freaking" was that fast paced...animal instinct...you just gotta reach that point and you just going crazy for it. I think its totally primal...but with "love making" I'd say its a bit slower paced...you can almost 'feel' the love per se. You do a lot more intimate things like spooning positions and kissing..sweet words... and its just more loving and you just look into your partner eyes and them into yours and you know theres no where else you wanna be...idk...dats just me and FH..
MissMeWithThatIsh
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About 29 minutes.
I can see that... but sometimes I want to make love quick.
Well, I suppose you could, not that I would know
MhmmmmI think, for me, making love forces me to let my guard down, and truly express myself sexually and sensually. I can love my DH and do, but when he makes love to me, I'm scared to "fully" respond sometimes. There's a vulnerability in making love, it's deep and I'm scared if I let it go for the wrong person, it would have driven me crazy. Lol.
MizzBrown
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I always like to reserve the term "making love" for married folks.
When my boyfriend would say "let's make love?" I'd correct him and say ***** you do NOT love me and we are not married. We are fcuking. Don't call it what it isn't.
If we happen to fall in love with each other then its still just sex.
Something about that term "making love" that irks me...seeing teenagers talkin bout they "made love" to their boyfriends the other night.
When my boyfriend would say "let's make love?" I'd correct him and say ***** you do NOT love me and we are not married. We are fcuking. Don't call it what it isn't.
If we happen to fall in love with each other then its still just sex.
Something about that term "making love" that irks me...seeing teenagers talkin bout they "made love" to their boyfriends the other night.
I always like to reserve the term "making love" for married folks.
When my boyfriend would say "let's make love?" I'd correct him and say ***** you do NOT love me and we are not married. We are fcuking. Don't call it what it isn't.
If we happen to fall in love with each other then its still just sex.
Something about that term "making love" that irks me...seeing teenagers talkin bout they "made love" to their boyfriends the other night.
So if you are in love, you cant make love unless you have a ring on it? Not to negate marital status, but the ring changes the legal status not necessarily the emotions involved.
Southernbella.
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I always like to reserve the term "making love" for married folks.
When my boyfriend would say "let's make love?" I'd correct him and say ***** you do NOT love me and we are not married. We are fcuking. Don't call it what it isn't.
If we happen to fall in love with each other then its still just sex.
Something about that term "making love" that irks me...seeing teenagers talkin bout they "made love" to their boyfriends the other night.
Making love= no profanity
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Lynn84
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I always like to reserve the term "making love" for married folks.
When my boyfriend would say "let's make love?" I'd correct him and say ***** you do NOT love me and we are not married. We are fcuking. Don't call it what it isn't.
If we happen to fall in love with each other then its still just sex.
Something about that term "making love" that irks me...seeing teenagers talkin bout they "made love" to their boyfriends the other night.
Damn
Did he have that look on his face 
MizzBrown
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To me, the ring changes legal status and emotions involved. You can be loved but not loved enough to put a ring on it.
I've had some intimate, candlelight, soft music sex before that some would consider "making love" but i never called it that. I just called it deep sex.
I've personally never been "in love". Loved a couple people but we just had sex. Good sex, deep sex, freaky sex...but to me it always labeled as sex.
~*Tigget*~
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MissMeWithThatIsh
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I have this idea in my head, as you will read in another post in here, but I'm just trying to see if I'm on the same wavelength in thought.
I can sex anyone, freak some, and only make love... well... I can't say I've tried to. There's a sexual hierarchy between the three of these categories, with increasing trust, vulnerability and openess...
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