What's the difference between making love and uhm

Most of the time my DH and I "make love" and there are times when we just "have sex". Making love is more intimate, but there are times when the passion overcomes you and you just go at it like animals. There's a time for both, but there should always be love for your partner at the center of either act
 
Seriously? I think it's a matter of where the heart is during the act. I've only been with one person but in the time that I've known him and been with him in that way sometimes I'm trying to express my feelings through my body. And sometimes I'm using him as my man toy. :grin:

But for me, the difference is what's in my mind.
 
Yes you can :grin: Rough, gentle, horizontal, vertical, etc. Ummm so many ways :lick:

Ok I was just asking because I was absolutely in love with my ex and we would get crazy with each other, it made me love him more...:look: Oh I miss that sucker sometimes.
 
Well in my case the "freaking" was that fast paced...animal instinct...you just gotta reach that point and you just going crazy for it. I think its totally primal...but with "love making" I'd say its a bit slower paced...you can almost 'feel' the love per se. You do a lot more intimate things like spooning positions and kissing..sweet words... and its just more loving and you just look into your partner eyes and them into yours and you know theres no where else you wanna be...idk...dats just me and FH..
 
making love is emotional and very intimate. When you both know what makes the other one melt.

Freaking is when he tells you he has to get up early for work the next morning......."Lock the door behind you please!":ohwell:
 
About 29 minutes. :sekret:
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Making love is an expression of emotions and freaking is just trying to "get off".
I can see that... but sometimes I want to make love quick. :)
Well, I suppose you could, not that I would know :look:
:lachen:Mhmmmm

I think, for me, making love forces me to let my guard down, and truly express myself sexually and sensually. I can love my DH and do, but when he makes love to me, I'm scared to "fully" respond sometimes. There's a vulnerability in making love, it's deep and I'm scared if I let it go for the wrong person, it would have driven me crazy. Lol.
 
I always like to reserve the term "making love" for married folks.

When my boyfriend would say "let's make love?" I'd correct him and say ***** you do NOT love me and we are not married. We are fcuking. Don't call it what it isn't.

If we happen to fall in love with each other then its still just sex.

Something about that term "making love" that irks me...seeing teenagers talkin bout they "made love" to their boyfriends the other night. :rolleyes:
 
I always like to reserve the term "making love" for married folks.

When my boyfriend would say "let's make love?" I'd correct him and say ***** you do NOT love me and we are not married. We are fcuking. Don't call it what it isn't.

If we happen to fall in love with each other then its still just sex.

Something about that term "making love" that irks me...seeing teenagers talkin bout they "made love" to their boyfriends the other night. :rolleyes:

So if you are in love, you cant make love unless you have a ring on it? Not to negate marital status, but the ring changes the legal status not necessarily the emotions involved.
 
My SO only likes to use the term "makin love". The first time I said SEX, he seems like he was offended. Oh well, but makin love comes out of my mouth, in my mind I am saying "freakin".
 
I always like to reserve the term "making love" for married folks.

When my boyfriend would say "let's make love?" I'd correct him and say ***** you do NOT love me and we are not married. We are fcuking. Don't call it what it isn't.

If we happen to fall in love with each other then its still just sex.

Something about that term "making love" that irks me...seeing teenagers talkin bout they "made love" to their boyfriends the other night. :rolleyes:

:lachen::lachen::lachen::lachen:


Making love= no profanity

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Freaking is just lust, all about gratification...

Making love is love, more spiritual, sensual, intimate, souls and bodies combining and all of that...
 
I always like to reserve the term "making love" for married folks.

When my boyfriend would say "let's make love?" I'd correct him and say ***** you do NOT love me and we are not married. We are fcuking. Don't call it what it isn't.

If we happen to fall in love with each other then its still just sex.

Something about that term "making love" that irks me...seeing teenagers talkin bout they "made love" to their boyfriends the other night. :rolleyes:

Damn :lachen: Did he have that look on his face :blush: :lachen:
 
So if you are in love, you cant make love unless you have a ring on it? Not to negate marital status, but the ring changes the legal status not necessarily the emotions involved.

To me, the ring changes legal status and emotions involved. You can be loved but not loved enough to put a ring on it.

I've had some intimate, candlelight, soft music sex before that some would consider "making love" but i never called it that. I just called it deep sex.

I've personally never been "in love". Loved a couple people but we just had sex. Good sex, deep sex, freaky sex...but to me it always labeled as sex.
 
Lmao. Who created the term "making love" anyway?


Lets birth some love.
 
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You mean, you really don't know?
I have this idea in my head, as you will read in another post in here, but I'm just trying to see if I'm on the same wavelength in thought.

I can sex anyone, freak some, and only make love... well... I can't say I've tried to. There's a sexual hierarchy between the three of these categories, with increasing trust, vulnerability and openess...
 
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