prettylady6464
Well-Known Member
Okay everyone.
Hope you guys had a pleasant day today.
Here's my story:
I was in Office Depot today picking up a file cabinet to set up my home office. I met this dude. He's 42; I'll be 49 in a few days. I don't go for younger dudes, but I figure that I should open my mind to possibilities after being widowed for nearly three years. So, he approached me and I took his number. I called him a few minutes ago.
BIG MISTAKE!
This dude was drinking as we talked. How did I know? ...cause his speech started to slur. He started trying to say he had the right to drink....whatever. He has the right to do whatever he wants, but if you want a decent woman, in my opinion, you don't get drunk and can barely talk during the first phone conversation.
I lost patience and got honest with him. I told him that he'd probably not remember the conversation in the morning, and I went on to tell him that I don't date men who drink
I told him I try to live a clean life and keep my body clean, so I'm not settling for anything less. I hung up.
My opinion is that a man who drinks too much upon initial contact with you is really worse than ya know. We all try to give our best first impression, so if this is his best I don't want to see the rest he has to offer![Nono :nono: :nono:](/smilies/nono.gif)
I was with one man for over 31 years and we were married for nearly 29 of those years, so I really don't know what has unfolded in the dating world over the past 30+ years; but. . .really?
Early in our phone conversation a few minutes ago, dude said that he is respectable and is a good man. Is this how men who call themselves, "Respectable", and, "Good" get down nowadays? Are we women putting up with stuff like this just to be considered as having a 'man' -- in this case I define 'man' loosely
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Were you in this situation, how would you have responded?
Hope you guys had a pleasant day today.
Here's my story:
I was in Office Depot today picking up a file cabinet to set up my home office. I met this dude. He's 42; I'll be 49 in a few days. I don't go for younger dudes, but I figure that I should open my mind to possibilities after being widowed for nearly three years. So, he approached me and I took his number. I called him a few minutes ago.
BIG MISTAKE!
This dude was drinking as we talked. How did I know? ...cause his speech started to slur. He started trying to say he had the right to drink....whatever. He has the right to do whatever he wants, but if you want a decent woman, in my opinion, you don't get drunk and can barely talk during the first phone conversation.
I lost patience and got honest with him. I told him that he'd probably not remember the conversation in the morning, and I went on to tell him that I don't date men who drink
![Nono :nono: :nono:](/smilies/nono.gif)
My opinion is that a man who drinks too much upon initial contact with you is really worse than ya know. We all try to give our best first impression, so if this is his best I don't want to see the rest he has to offer
![Nono :nono: :nono:](/smilies/nono.gif)
I was with one man for over 31 years and we were married for nearly 29 of those years, so I really don't know what has unfolded in the dating world over the past 30+ years; but. . .really?
Early in our phone conversation a few minutes ago, dude said that he is respectable and is a good man. Is this how men who call themselves, "Respectable", and, "Good" get down nowadays? Are we women putting up with stuff like this just to be considered as having a 'man' -- in this case I define 'man' loosely
Were you in this situation, how would you have responded?