They're not available for you to date, so you do nothing.
What if they're dating a in playing the field and not committed to anyone, and isn't it until your married your single true.
What if they're dating a in playing the field and not committed to anyone, and isn't it until your married your single true.
Dude, stop trying to find justification! Single till married would give an excuse for every dating/engaged person to step out without consequence. If this is your situation, if it's weighing so hard on you, either
1. End YOUR relationship and pursue the "perfection" (80/20 rule coming into play, anyone?) If THEY ARE SINGLE. If they are with someone, even if you end your relationship, leave it alone!
2. Realize you/they with someone and keep it moving. Those are your two options.
If you choose 3, see both men behind each other's backs, that's just trife. If he's seeing someone and willingly takes up with you while STILL being with that person, expect like reward. Tie up loose ends before going on to a new level.
So, once he gets with you, its okay for him to date other people..What if they're dating a in playing the field and not committed to anyone, and isn't it until your married your single true.
What if they're dating a in playing the field and not committed to anyone, and isn't it until your married your single true.
ZeeOl'Lady said:So, once he gets with you, its okay for him to date other people..
You know, since yall aren't married?
Use empathy here
Do you mean someone who is dating around but hasn't committed to anyone (and both parties know they aren't committed yet)??
Dude, stop trying to find justification! Single till married would give an excuse for every dating/engaged person to step out without consequence. If this is your situation, if it's weighing so hard on you, either
1. End YOUR relationship and pursue the "perfection" (80/20 rule coming into play, anyone?) If THEY ARE SINGLE. If they are with someone, even if you end your relationship,leave it alone!
2. Realize you/they with someone and keep it moving. Those are your two options.
If you choose 3, see both men behind each other's backs, that's just trife. If he's seeing someone and willingly takes up with you while STILL being with that person, expect like reward. Tie up loose ends before going on to a new level.
You can't help when you actually meet people, If I or they were committed or serious with someone we were "dating" then this would not even be a question. I agree with the bolded.
You can't help when you meet people, but you can help what you do when your relationship status and that of the other person is not single. If you are in a committed relationship, as is he, then do not pass go (unless you break things off...and in that case, if your perfect image isn't what you imagined it to be, don't go crawling back. Gambling and losing it all is a risk you'll be taking)You can't help when you actually meet people, If I or they were committed or serious with someone we were "dating" then this would not even be a question. I agree with the bolded.
You can't help when you meet people, but you can help what you do when your relationship status and that of the other person is not single. If you are in a committed relationship, as is he, then do not pass go (unless you break things off...and in that case, if your perfect image isn't what you imagined it to be, don't go crawling back. Gambling and losing it all is a risk you'll be taking)
If you're just "dating" around and the current is aware that you're still playing the field (and the same is sure with the other guy in question) then I see nothing wrong with it. The level of commitment on both sides goes a long way!
Yes that's what I mean, isn't that playing the field or being single, until you actually commit to being exclusive or get engaged you're free to see who's out there and then choose IMO.
I don't count talking "dating" to automatically mean commitment, you're just getting to know someone. If dating means they're automatically committed then doesn't that pretty much make everybody off limits then ?
Dude, stop trying to find justification! Single till married would give an excuse for every dating/engaged person to step out without consequence. If this is your situation, if it's weighing so hard on you, either
1. End YOUR relationship and pursue the "perfection" (80/20 rule coming into play, anyone?) If THEY ARE SINGLE. If they are with someone, even if you end your relationship, leave it alone!
2. Realize you/they with someone and keep it moving. Those are your two options.
If you choose 3, see both men behind each other's backs, that's just trife. If he's seeing someone and willingly takes up with you while STILL being with that person, expect like reward. Tie up loose ends before going on to a new level.
WellI didn't want to post too many details on here, so here's the thing were both in different cities right now we have met in person, talked and IM'd. He's on FB, and he has pics of diff women he's friends with all over his FB, from school, work etc...but his Ex's pic is still on there, that's really what's bugging me. I know he can't unlive his life so I asked him outright tonight and he stated he's single, I already knew he had no kids. So I guess I'm just trippin over all the women friends he has on FB, which I shouldn't be cause were not on that level yet. I'm not going to assume he's lying just cause he's not here but if it turns out he's lying I'll KIM. thanks for the responses