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Aka frostoppa
So you have a really good friend, and they ask you to be their maid of honor and you accept it....she asks you to come with her when she tries on her wedding dress (she has set up one date before and cancelled that you agreed to go to) and gives you a date two weeks away.
You tell her that you will come with her if you are off work that day. She then says "I think I need a new maid of honor." You then explain that you have told her in the past that in order for you to take off from work, you have to be told a few weeks in advance. She then makes you a bridesmaid. What would you do?
Back info:
all communication was done via text messages. I am taking care of a mother with dementia, at the time of these exchanges I was dealing with a car that was on it's last legs. A relative moved in and life has just been CRAZY. I forgot to get back to her once on if I could come to one dress fitting. My fault. Other than that, and also her asking me if I could come to two dates she had already made plans for and I could not attend because I was working, I cannot think of any other reason for her doing this.
Speaking of work, I have to go to work now and I will be ready to answer questions when I come back.
We have been friends for well over 13+ years and I really do not appreciate the passive aggressiveness and will not let it slide. In all honesty, I thought she was joking about finding a new maid of honor...but she wasn't.
Now here is for me putting my business out in the internets lol
You tell her that you will come with her if you are off work that day. She then says "I think I need a new maid of honor." You then explain that you have told her in the past that in order for you to take off from work, you have to be told a few weeks in advance. She then makes you a bridesmaid. What would you do?
Back info:
all communication was done via text messages. I am taking care of a mother with dementia, at the time of these exchanges I was dealing with a car that was on it's last legs. A relative moved in and life has just been CRAZY. I forgot to get back to her once on if I could come to one dress fitting. My fault. Other than that, and also her asking me if I could come to two dates she had already made plans for and I could not attend because I was working, I cannot think of any other reason for her doing this.
Speaking of work, I have to go to work now and I will be ready to answer questions when I come back.
We have been friends for well over 13+ years and I really do not appreciate the passive aggressiveness and will not let it slide. In all honesty, I thought she was joking about finding a new maid of honor...but she wasn't.
Now here is for me putting my business out in the internets lol