I'd have a lot more questions that need to be answered first.
Talk about burying the lead. This is a way bigger problem than sharing nudie pics and masturbating together online.Ok so what if you find out he had sex with the person a few times ,oral included (to her ) ,and tried to have more but changed his mind and decided to be faithful ?
Exactly ,doesn't make sense . I truly believe cheaters have no empathyI'd say throw his arse out, and get an attorney. Oh, and get tested as well. Disgusting.
ETA: how could he change his mind and "decide to be faithful" when he was already unfaithful several times before? Cheaters logic
To me this is grounds for divorce. This is a glaring red flag of what's to come. I can sooo see the woman saying months or years down the line..."I shoulda left his arse when I caught him doing this ish in the first place....now look at the mess I'm in" Uggh...no thanks. The sympathizers can have him.
Ok so what if you find out he had sex with the person a few times ,oral included (to her ) ,and tried to have more but changed his mind and decided to be faithful ?
Ok so what if you find out he had sex with the person a few times ,oral included (to her ) ,and tried to have more but changed his mind and decided to be faithful ?
I don't think it's easy for a man to engage in oral sex (he has already crossed the line of no return) and refrain from inserting into the woman. I believe that's the story he gave in order to keep the wife calm. At this point the wife is desperate for any bit of good news, so her hearing that the husband didn't finish the deal is probably enough to reel her in so she does not go completely bonkers. Deep down she knows better, but wants some glimmer of hope, so she accepts the story.
All this to say, that we'd be through.
Ok so what if you find out he had sex with the person a few times ,oral included (to her ) ,and tried to have more but changed his mind and decided to be faithful ?
Not my story but someone close to me . I can relate to an extent.hope this isnt you OP. if it is you're asking too many questions and should be on your way out of this situation.
Not my story but someone close to me . I can relate to an extent.
I agree with not being able to forgive him ,to me the oral sex is worse than the sex especially knowing the woman had an orgasm and he had his mouth right there. *shivers* that ,to me,it's just unforgivable . On top of that continuing with pics and skyping ..no remorse whatsoever.