At age 18, I got my first relaxer using a Soft & Beautiful box kit. I decided upon that one because it was the only one that didn’t have any horror stories attached to it (i.e., TCB made peoples hair fall out in clumps, all the bald-headed people with stiff hair used Dark & Lovely, Revlon hardened one’s hair).
As for shampoos and conditioners, I used whatever Salon Selectives brand that was on sale before moving on to Pantene and Wella Kolestral. I also used the white Dax hair grease during hot combing and my beloved Pink Oil Moisturizer for daily maintenance.
Prior to joining this forum, I always assumed hair gel to be a condiment for the Jheri Curl, so I didn’t touch the stuff.