SavannahNatural
Well-Known Member
I broke up with the man I knew was going to be my husband...
During the course of our relationship we wined and dined. We were in the process of relocating and during one of our visits to his family decided to leave the extra stuff we had purchased at his relatives house, until the final move.
Fast Forward to that relationship becoming rocky and me asking him to have my belongings sent to me, postage paid by me. For whatever reason it kept getting pushed back and pushed back. No problem, we aren't bitter or angry and there's no ill will, so I'm not concerned.
Finally the relationship ends and he says he's going to send me my things... Great!
I got a few boxes sent by him another sent by his relatives. I'm expecting the box by his relatives to be huge, but it's not. It's quite small for all that we purchased.
I open the box to find that his family has donated a great portion of the items I left at their residence and have provided me with the receipt... I had talked to them prior to my items being sent to me, and their was no mention of the generous donation on my behalf. What do I do?
If I'm honest, I'm slightly a materialistic person. My life is fashion and style, and now I'm out about 8 pairs of shoes, numerous dresses, and so on and so forth.
I went on and just forgot about the stuff, out of sight out of mind, however when I see something that reminds me of something I bought during that trip, I start to mentally go through the things that I no longer have.
It just won't stay out of my mind!
During the course of our relationship we wined and dined. We were in the process of relocating and during one of our visits to his family decided to leave the extra stuff we had purchased at his relatives house, until the final move.
Fast Forward to that relationship becoming rocky and me asking him to have my belongings sent to me, postage paid by me. For whatever reason it kept getting pushed back and pushed back. No problem, we aren't bitter or angry and there's no ill will, so I'm not concerned.
Finally the relationship ends and he says he's going to send me my things... Great!
I got a few boxes sent by him another sent by his relatives. I'm expecting the box by his relatives to be huge, but it's not. It's quite small for all that we purchased.
I open the box to find that his family has donated a great portion of the items I left at their residence and have provided me with the receipt... I had talked to them prior to my items being sent to me, and their was no mention of the generous donation on my behalf. What do I do?
If I'm honest, I'm slightly a materialistic person. My life is fashion and style, and now I'm out about 8 pairs of shoes, numerous dresses, and so on and so forth.
I went on and just forgot about the stuff, out of sight out of mind, however when I see something that reminds me of something I bought during that trip, I start to mentally go through the things that I no longer have.
It just won't stay out of my mind!