I think we may have had a thread about this before, but people change, circumstances change ...
I have a person in my life who I'm struggling to love. It's a relative, so it's not someone I can just easily give up on. Before I do give up, I want to make sure that I've tried everything from my end.
I was on Oprah (not because of this situation ) watching some of her Life Class videos and came across a video where she talked about learning to love her mother. She said "I had to love her at her level." Then I came across a video of her stylist talking about how she changed her marriage by learning her and her husband's love languages. It was a light bulb moment for me. Perhaps this person and I are speaking completely different love languages. So I (re)did the test, I just now have to figure out what the other person's profile is because I know they won't take the test.
My love language is 'Acts of Service' at 11 followed by 'Words of Affirmation' at 9.
What is your love language and are you mindful of it and the love languages of others in your everyday life? You can take the test here.
I have a person in my life who I'm struggling to love. It's a relative, so it's not someone I can just easily give up on. Before I do give up, I want to make sure that I've tried everything from my end.
I was on Oprah (not because of this situation ) watching some of her Life Class videos and came across a video where she talked about learning to love her mother. She said "I had to love her at her level." Then I came across a video of her stylist talking about how she changed her marriage by learning her and her husband's love languages. It was a light bulb moment for me. Perhaps this person and I are speaking completely different love languages. So I (re)did the test, I just now have to figure out what the other person's profile is because I know they won't take the test.
My love language is 'Acts of Service' at 11 followed by 'Words of Affirmation' at 9.
What is your love language and are you mindful of it and the love languages of others in your everyday life? You can take the test here.
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