fluffylocks
New Member
I just dont understand this behavior.
One of my best friends, 21 years old, shes very pretty, but she also plain in her appearence (jeans and tshirt and ponytail girl), very sweet, and reserved. She and I have been living in the same area for a long time-going to the same schools, and she def. not a "loose" girl.
She likes to stay home alot, but every now and then me and her would go out to clubs and stuff....When she went out, she did it all up though, her makeup ect on point and you couldnt tell she was reserved, we had fun
Shes been dating this dude for like almost 2 years now, hes 26, and isnt all that looking, nice but kind of arrogant or really confident, outgoing and likes to show off alittle. Hes traveled alot, has had lots of different girlfriends of different backgrounds, and isnt shy at all when it comes to women.
He doesnt like to stay home alot, and goes out more than her (even though I can say that he doesnt go out as much as other guys I know)
But, when I try to take my friend out to the clubs every now and then (Like tonight, we had planned it 2 days ago
)-- he gets really pissed off, to the point where she doesnt even like to go anymore at the last minuete.
And she complains to me that he doesnt take her anywhere, and that alot of times when he does go to clubs and stuff, he lies about it and tells her later.
When they were first talking, he actually got on the phone, asked me who I was, told me she wasnt going anywhere, and hung up in my face.
Sometimes, if me and her are talking, she'll just hang up if he comes around because he always wants to know who shes talking to, what about, what for ect.
She told me when they argue he gets really into name calling and rudeness.
He also asked her to move into his house and marry him...
She said he told her he lies because hes "scared of her" because when he goes out, he just wants to have fun and to come back home, and he might not even be able to dance with any girls and he basically just watches, but for her and females its different because everyone will be hitting on her ect
And I cant even remember why he said he doesnt take her out.
I dont understand...
Does this sound like age difference, or him being insecure, or over controlling, or like he wants to have his cake and eat it too....what do you think?
Or could it be because he has alittle money, and she doesnt?
One of my best friends, 21 years old, shes very pretty, but she also plain in her appearence (jeans and tshirt and ponytail girl), very sweet, and reserved. She and I have been living in the same area for a long time-going to the same schools, and she def. not a "loose" girl.
She likes to stay home alot, but every now and then me and her would go out to clubs and stuff....When she went out, she did it all up though, her makeup ect on point and you couldnt tell she was reserved, we had fun
Shes been dating this dude for like almost 2 years now, hes 26, and isnt all that looking, nice but kind of arrogant or really confident, outgoing and likes to show off alittle. Hes traveled alot, has had lots of different girlfriends of different backgrounds, and isnt shy at all when it comes to women.
He doesnt like to stay home alot, and goes out more than her (even though I can say that he doesnt go out as much as other guys I know)
But, when I try to take my friend out to the clubs every now and then (Like tonight, we had planned it 2 days ago
And she complains to me that he doesnt take her anywhere, and that alot of times when he does go to clubs and stuff, he lies about it and tells her later.
When they were first talking, he actually got on the phone, asked me who I was, told me she wasnt going anywhere, and hung up in my face.
Sometimes, if me and her are talking, she'll just hang up if he comes around because he always wants to know who shes talking to, what about, what for ect.
She told me when they argue he gets really into name calling and rudeness.
He also asked her to move into his house and marry him...
She said he told her he lies because hes "scared of her" because when he goes out, he just wants to have fun and to come back home, and he might not even be able to dance with any girls and he basically just watches, but for her and females its different because everyone will be hitting on her ect
And I cant even remember why he said he doesnt take her out.
I dont understand...
Does this sound like age difference, or him being insecure, or over controlling, or like he wants to have his cake and eat it too....what do you think?
Or could it be because he has alittle money, and she doesnt?