GeauXavi
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I always hid behind long hair so this was one of my fears when I relaxed my hair. I didn't make the final plunge to go natural until I married my husband. I didn't dare go natural in my 20's for fear that a guy would think my transitioning hair was a beehive. Plus I didn't know how to transition anyway. I knew my husband would be supportive and since he has 4b hair that he keeps in an afro or braids I figured it would be ok for me to go natural. He was sad when I cut my hair, he likes it long.. but now that its APL again he's happy. I do notice that he likes it better when I straighten, but I'm not about to burn my hair just for him LOL esta loco
See...that's how i feel...I DON'T know how to transition...like i said... i chopped at 8 weeks last time ...I don't think i'm up for another drastic bc...been there, done that....But I DO wish that I could wave a magic wand and have a head full of natural hair...no BC, No transition