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What have you realized since being on LHCF?

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The main thing I realized
From learning about proper hair care.Setbacks mistakes and slip ups.Finally getting you regimen down pack. Finding new tricks and tweaks to better you regimen:look: Sweat,blood and tears. And mainly patience. For most it takes 3+ years to reach full WSL. IMO:look:

What have you realized?
 
How many women are wearing weaves and wigs out there.. i seriously had NO IDEA.

Also, that direct heat is not my best friend, and updo's can be fun!
 
I've learned:

-There's a lot of science and information out there about hair and I love it all. But, you can never go wrong with the basics.

-Taking care of my hair is fun but it's part of a total package. I don't want to have WL hair but be 50lbs overweight. I need to make sure I'm not focused only on my hair.

-It's important to know why you are doing something and how an ingredient/product works.

-I love wigs. Seriously I do. They really make my life easier and fit right into my lazy approach to haircare.

-Do what works for YOU, not anyone else. It doesn't matter what it is (petroleum, relaxing, washing once a month, etc. etc. etc.).
 
The main things I learned:
-The importance of regular moisture and sealing.
-That you may occasionally have to change your reggie. Since hitting BSL and being stuck there for a while, I'm having to change practically everything i'm doing in terms of products, techniques, etc.
 
One move at a time is all that it takes. If you want to go to too many directions, there is a risk you wont go anywhere at all. I incorporate one product or technique at a time in my WIP regimen and gives it the time to work or fail ... then I move to the next one :)
 
I've realized that I CAN have soft hair! I always thought that having dry hair was just normal for me. I
 
I've realized that there are people who have been on here for 2-3+ years, and still are not far past shoulder length (don't know them specifically, nor do I know why their hair isn't past a certain length), but it made me realize that I can be at this and still not be happy with my results after x amount of years, although it seems I'm on the right track.

I've also realized that me and my hair definitely have an understanding, however it can be just a little tricky at times.

I've realized that I'm not mentally ready for a set back *keeping fingers crossed*

I've realized that I LOVE my simple regimen. Makes life soo much easier.
 
I have realized since joining LHCF...

  • That my hair can survive without heat. My styles may not be the cutest, but I rather have my hair on my head than on my bathroom floor.:mopup:
  • That I can learn something from every woman on this forum.:bookworm2:
  • That I can be four weeks post and not fiend for a relaxer.:freakout:
  • That I love the texture of my new growth. :gorgeous:
 
msa said:
Do what works for YOU, not anyone else. It doesn't matter what it is (petroleum, relaxing, washing once a month, etc. etc. etc.).
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I've learned this is the TRUTH!!

I've also learned there is no place like LHCF!
 
I've learned that the times i've cut (not trimmed) my hair over the last 2 years where unneccessary and have set me back by of total of maybe 4 inches or so.

I've learned that cowashing and dc'ing is my friend.

I've learned that it's ok to get my hair wet.

I've learned that twist outs are funky (though i do screw them up on occasion).

I've learned that natchal hair is the business.

I've realized that i don't need to straighten my hair all the time. I'm ok w/doing it every month or two and it's no biggie. Before the boards i would straighten every week.

I've learned that you can't change the mind of a hair nazi (them being relaxed or natural). MSA if you are reading this I am NOT referring to you.

I've learned that stretching is great. I'm 17 weeks tomorrow I believe into my transition.

I've learned that for me less is more.
 
Women really spend alot of time on hair,make-up,and body. It's not just magical for most to be 'that girl'. Whewww it's work to look super fine:lol:
And also natural hair isn't as hard to maintain as I once thought. Oh yea and hair textures have names and numbers.
 
I've learned that I can't flat iron everyday
I've learned that I can moisturize daily without having greasy hair
I've learned that there are caring women out there willing to share secrets so that we can all feel beautiful
 
That I like to post and read the off topic forum A LOT.
That there is more than one way to reach hair goals.
That WL may be a goal I want to go for.
That a lot of people are as obsessed with hair as I am.
 
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Umm, almost everything? A few things have surprised me though:

1. My hair actually thrives with some heat. I just have to respect its limitations.
2. The largest hair care producers seem to care the least about hair. Making some of my own products works best.
3. I'm not the only one that didn't know that petroleum and mineral oil are GENERALLY bad (those of you using vaseline, don't skewer me)
4. The variety of styles that can be done on natural hair that don't require weave or extenstions.
5. People willingly use things not traditionally used for hair (MN, BKT) and it actually HELPS them. These things would never have hit my radar otherwise.
6. Strangers out there are actually willing to help and encourage others along their journey. Thank you ladies - you've changed my life! :blowkiss:
 
PGirl said:
I've learned that there are caring women out there willing to share secrets so that we can all feel beautiful
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I agree!!! This is the reason why I joined; I love how all women (whether ur relaxed, texlaxed, or natural) are accepted here. Its all inclusive!
 
amazing said:
I've realized that there are people who have been on here for 2-3+ years, and still are not far past shoulder length (don't know them specifically, nor do I know why their hair isn't past a certain length), but it made me realize that I can be at this and still not be happy with my results after x amount of years, although it seems I'm on the right track.
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I'm one of those people who's been at this for 3 yrs with no progress (LOTS of setbacks). Anyway dont look at that to discourage you keep taking care of your hair and doing you. There are plenty reasons why someone might not be making progress but if your hair is doing well just focus on that:yep:

I've learned:

that WL is very serious for some people
that my hair needs moisture
dont let a lot of people in your hair
that there are many people who dont fall into the hair type categories
 
I used to think that I didn't have problems growing my hair because I was just lucky. Now I know that I was practicing healty hair habits without knowing it. After joining LHCF I have even better hair care practices.

I realized how to transition without damaging and having my hair breakoff.

I realized that oils seal in moisture and that sealing in moisture helps keep my hair moisturized.

I realized how badly my hair needed a proper moisture protein balance.

I realized how important conditioning is for moisturizing my hair.

I realized how important water is for moisturizing my hair.

I realized all the things in my kitchen I can use on my hair to keep it healthy.

I realized the importance of reading labels and using water based products and avoiding petroleum, mineral oil, and lanolin.

I realized how awesome castor and coconut oil are on my hair.

I realized how versatile natural hair can be.

I realized I can get a really cute hairstyle by finger combing.

I realized how much I enjoy caring for my hair.
 
-Not to use heat that often.

-That no matter what I do my ends still look like crap and my hair doesnt seem add any length cause I am always trimming my ends, I think I have tried like every product out there to get some results and nothing helps.
 
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The purpose of conditioning. :giggle:

Anybody can grow long hair, there is no magical gene or product or formula.

Natural hair isn't automatically in better shape than relaxed hair. Care & upkeep really does make a difference. :look:

Being healthy on the inside is cool, attractive, and not difficult. :yep:
 
That NOTHING is IMPOSSIBLE


~and~


ALL things are POSSIBLE.

~and~

It's all about having faith, determination, an open mind and it's also ALL about finding the right combination of products and techniques to get you where you want to be.

It's nice sharing what you've learned and what you know.
 
I've Learned that Suffering a Major Setback IS NOT the End of the World.

a) "I" Am NOT my Hair
*After Suffering a Setback if you Don't come to Terms with this One Simple Principle -- It can mess with your mind.

b) You can Recover
c) It Takes Time
d) It takes Patience
e) It is a day-to-day learning experience:yep:
 
That you can successfully self relax
That uneven hair is ok
That weaves are optional- you can have long, swinging hair without it
Protect your ends, protect your ends, protect your ends
That most beauticians are clueless
 
1. That you cant always do what everyone else is doing
2. Sometimes you have to cut
3. Layers (in my case) take forever to grow out
4. All hair is "good" hair
5. buy products according to your hair type...not your skin color
6. Patience is a virtue. Hair grows overnight but it may take about 60 nights to notice it.
7. Listen to your hair
8. Have the courage to walk out of the salon and or speak up for you hair if you are not getting the service you want.
9. The more hair you grow the more hair you want
10. It's not just hair...LOL
 
I have learned that there are no quick fixes to growing your hair long QUICKLY....i.e. not going from TWA to shoulder length in a week

Protein/moisturizer balance is a must

Oh big one....try and use the products u have sucessfully before you go out and buy new ones...CONTROL THE INNER PRODUCT JUNKIE LOL

Wearing a satin bonnet on the head is a must...even when taking a nap

Oh last one....oh boy all the advice given is not for you...trial and error, pick and choose.
 
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