Ayesha81
Well-Known Member
Hey ladies
I ended a 4 month relationship due to the fact that this guy was verbally abusive. I am nice to people that I like, (now I know not to be too nice) and he basically took that for granted. So he would talk to me anyway, he never had anything good to say about me. He put me down any chance that he could get for no reason. It was really bad, to this day, it has negative effects on me. I guess he thought I would always be around to put up with him.
So l told him some heated words that put him to shame, and I know he never expected that coming from me. He got so quiet and sounded like a crybaby. He was saying what is everybody going to think when they know what I said to him and how Im lucky he didnt tell his sister (like Im supposed to be scared)the thing is they dont know the ass he really is. A few months later he starts texting me and emailing me all these positive, sweet messages. Everybody knows him as this quiet and genuine guy who is usually in the house and doesn't date much. So I didn't feel that I would have to have my guards up with him. But why did he act like such an ******* with me. Now I am confused, cause he was never nice to me before. He always made it seem like I needed him more than he needs me. So what does he want? And should I reply? Im also having this guilt trip because of the mean things I said to him. Thanks ladies.
I ended a 4 month relationship due to the fact that this guy was verbally abusive. I am nice to people that I like, (now I know not to be too nice) and he basically took that for granted. So he would talk to me anyway, he never had anything good to say about me. He put me down any chance that he could get for no reason. It was really bad, to this day, it has negative effects on me. I guess he thought I would always be around to put up with him.
So l told him some heated words that put him to shame, and I know he never expected that coming from me. He got so quiet and sounded like a crybaby. He was saying what is everybody going to think when they know what I said to him and how Im lucky he didnt tell his sister (like Im supposed to be scared)the thing is they dont know the ass he really is. A few months later he starts texting me and emailing me all these positive, sweet messages. Everybody knows him as this quiet and genuine guy who is usually in the house and doesn't date much. So I didn't feel that I would have to have my guards up with him. But why did he act like such an ******* with me. Now I am confused, cause he was never nice to me before. He always made it seem like I needed him more than he needs me. So what does he want? And should I reply? Im also having this guilt trip because of the mean things I said to him. Thanks ladies.