what do you miss most about being in a relationship?

[Penspringz]

I think i'll miss the affection...

 

[ThickHair]

Affection and sleeping with someone (not sex), but snuggly, sleeping. A man's body is hot in the winter and cool in the summer.

 

[CarefreeinChicago]

just having someone to go places with like a last minute concert or trip out of town

 

[Maracujá]

just having someone to go places with like a last minute concert or trip out of town

You took the words right out of my mouth!

 

[Je Ne Sais Quoi]

Intimacy/closeness

 

[song_of_serenity]

Having someone to hold close and call mine.
Someone to share that emotion with.
~*Janelle~*

 

[SimpleKomplexity]

I like sleeping next to someone. I slept with my mother off and on in her bed until I was 12. I still to this day take naps with my daddy whenever I can. I just like the feeling of being close to someone.

 

[tinkat]

I miss the companionship, affection, closeness, cuddling...

 

[BeautyPoint]

What everyone else said...

 

[daydreem2876]

Sleeping through the night with someone

falling asleep with my head on his chest while he watches sportscenter, listening to the rhythm of his heart... him reaching over in the middle of the night, after I have moved to my side of the bed because I got hot, and pulling me in and tucking me under his arm like a little kid with his teddy bear

 

[locabouthair]

I miss the cuddling.

Its something about the cuddling and spooning.

 

[JollyGal]

I miss the cuggles

:-(

I miss the kisses on the forehead.

I miss the calls just to say hello

I miss the talks when no one else understands

I miss the dates

I miss THAT look he gives me

I miss having someone to tell mum about

:-(

 

[isawstars]

I miss the company. Just spending the day together while holding hands and giving each other kisses throughout the day. Is it weird that I also miss my ex boyfriend's mom? lol, she was like one of my girl friends.

 

[isawstars]

I miss THAT look he gives me

omg, I miss that too! & asking him why he's looking at me "that way" lol. Which only makes him do it even more while he asks "what look?"

 

[Je Ne Sais Quoi]

This thread is depressing

 

[Ediese]

This thread is depressing. I gotta get out of here. I do not need to be in here. It's too easy for me to be tempted to do something stupid...

 

[Bunny77]

This thread is depressing. I gotta get out of here. I do not need to be in here. It's too easy for me to be tempted to do something stupid...

Noooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo........................

 

[lust for life]

This thread is depressing me & I'm in a relationship =/

 

[natural in ATL]

This thread is depressing me & I'm in a relationship =/

I will say this thread does bring up some dangerous thoughts...

I miss the spooning, waking up next to someone and being so happy they're with you, walking hand-in-hand, sharing secret code words that no one else understands, someone to listen to me vent about my day , someone to spend holidays with, someone to tell me I'm beautiful and perfect for him every day... OK now I'm getting depressed... LOL!

 

[EbonyYoungin517]

Well I'm not single but I remember what I missed first was having someone to talk to and really understands you. I missed having someone truly care about what happened in my day and not listen out of duty. I also missed kissing. :-(

 

[Ericka]

I miss the play fighting and just relaxing together. I also miss his arms around me while we sleep.

 

[Helpmeblongagain]

I miss the affection.

I miss the companionship.

I miss the regular sex...(it sure is hard w/no regular Mr.)

I miss the kisses.

I miss the companionship.


Thanks guys, now Im sad.

 

[NaniDiamond]

all of the above and if it wasn't mentioned...just the security that a man brings into the relationship

 

[Ms_Delikate]

I miss the companionship and the sex.

 

[BrooklynSouth]

I have my "Wandering Knight' with whom I can discuss nearly anything-by phone{} so some of the relationship need is satisfied there but I miss the hugs, the scent and feel of a man, the kisses, the hanging out with a man who likes to have face to face conversation with me. I miss grabbing a "HIM" when I want to go somewhere when a single woman would be looked at askance or as if she is there to pick up a man.

 

[scoobygirl]

I miss having someone to cook for
I miss having someone to share my joy with
I miss having someone to get excited with
I miss having someone to celebrate with
I miss having someone to be proud of me
I miss my best friend

But, let me tell you what I don't miss

I don't miss him having to be right all the time
I don't miss playing mama to a grown man
I don't miss him taking me for granted
I don't miss his stupid video games, porn, or 50-11 side projects
I don't miss the fights
And I don't miss his family, especially his mama

 

[Filmatic]

I miss playing in his hair
I miss laying on his stomach
I miss being held
I miss having someone to laugh at stupid thing with
I miss his scent
I miss that feeling of being happy to see him

 

[Mimi22]

Gosh!!

I'm done..it's over...I'm depressed

 

[Penspringz]

awww sorry ladies, this wasn't supposed to be depressing. We all miss the same things perhaps something can be said about that. I dunno.

 

[vevster]

The companionship. Not doing everything alone. Having someone who considers you a priority. That male energy. The Yang to your Yin.