longhairlover
New Member
I am happily married now, but I find myself having dreams about my first love/my first. No not dreams that i'm in love but dreams that I was able to get closure, years ago when I last saw him I tried to get the reason, the why's etc. But he just refused to be truthful. I feel like that part of my life is still haunting me.
My mother was going nuts at the time because my grandmother had died, she destroyed her marriage with a younger man, just turmoil around me. I used his house to stay at to hide from what was going on in my life. I was 18,19 at the time. Things were just bad at that time, and if my mother hadn't lost it temporarily I would have never dealt with him, but his house moreso than him was a crutch to get away.
I have been dissed other times when I was younger but this was my first love etc. and I never got that closer.
To the ladies out there, were you able to get that closer from your first love? or the person who hurt you?
I know I need to move on and I have but these haunting dreams that I have make me feel like i need closure. Or maybe something has happened to him....who knows.
Now I don't miss him, i'm actually happy that I now have a wonderful man who is not out to harm me, I just needed to get this off of my chest.
My mother was going nuts at the time because my grandmother had died, she destroyed her marriage with a younger man, just turmoil around me. I used his house to stay at to hide from what was going on in my life. I was 18,19 at the time. Things were just bad at that time, and if my mother hadn't lost it temporarily I would have never dealt with him, but his house moreso than him was a crutch to get away.
I have been dissed other times when I was younger but this was my first love etc. and I never got that closer.
To the ladies out there, were you able to get that closer from your first love? or the person who hurt you?
I know I need to move on and I have but these haunting dreams that I have make me feel like i need closure. Or maybe something has happened to him....who knows.
Now I don't miss him, i'm actually happy that I now have a wonderful man who is not out to harm me, I just needed to get this off of my chest.