Everything Zen
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After a famously intense fight last night that left me in tears and yelling, MisterMan texted this morning to say Good Morning and to apologize and tell me he loves me and that he wants to cook dinner for me when I come over on Thursday to stay for the weekend.
I apologized as well but when I think back over all the times that we fight (which is not often) it almost alway happens at night when I am back at my own place or out of town or something. He usually calls me late and I recognize that normally I don't want to have a long drawn out conversation because I'm tired and want to chill out and go to sleep. The conversations start very genially and have a tendency to go south after that. If we don't fight, I'm drained and tired of talking and having serious conversation so I have a tendency not to be in a good mood after the call.
What gives? Is this a bad sign? When we're together we get along almost too well and I stay with him for days or a week at a time. We've been together more than 9 months. I hope this isn't the beginning of the end because I am too lazy to start over and find someone new and this is my first real relationship.
I apologized as well but when I think back over all the times that we fight (which is not often) it almost alway happens at night when I am back at my own place or out of town or something. He usually calls me late and I recognize that normally I don't want to have a long drawn out conversation because I'm tired and want to chill out and go to sleep. The conversations start very genially and have a tendency to go south after that. If we don't fight, I'm drained and tired of talking and having serious conversation so I have a tendency not to be in a good mood after the call.
What gives? Is this a bad sign? When we're together we get along almost too well and I stay with him for days or a week at a time. We've been together more than 9 months. I hope this isn't the beginning of the end because I am too lazy to start over and find someone new and this is my first real relationship.