Listen ya'll, I ain't say nuthin before cuz I was embarrassed but when your ash and goes...I mean wash and goes are terrible there's no such thing as second day hair. Nearly every morning since November when I started this I would either cowash or wet my hair in the shower, rake with some styling products and let my hair airdry with the occasional - "pooh, it's cold let me sit under this dryer!"
Yesterday I rewet my hair and applied styler and diffused and got a very decent wash and go. Last night I put my hair in two loose flat twists cuz I figured I'd just have to redo my hair in the morning. Ya'll, I took them twists out my hair this morning and for the first time since I started this I got second day hair AND it's stretched and looks more defined than yesterday.
The diffuser got my thang over here thangin'!
The key difference that I notice is that pre diffuser my roots would dry fuzzy and I'd have definition down the length of the hair. When I diffused I started at the roots and pulled my hair so it would dry stretched and it seems like it kept the coil definition from the root to the ends.