Vent: Years Later Side Piece Aint S...!

[DarkJoy]

Most of ya'll know my a former friend swooped in to my (troubled) former marriage 6 years ago and they still together.

Im over THAT but...

Why everytime I come to pick up my child, the homewrecker HIDES, yall, she HIDES in the bedroom of his apartment. She is clearly there. Leaves her purse out... but RUNS AWAY and closes the door when I come for my child.

When I'm invited to ex inlaw events, she's always magically not there. We grown but she still stupid. Like... wow.

If you bold enough to step into a marriage, be bold enough to face the exWife 6 years later! Cmon now. Stupid coward dont wanna claim her side piece (who won nothing) status?!

I was really looking forward to saying hi, thanking her and catching up too

 

[Lucie]

You want me to kick her derriere for you before or after you eventually catch up?

 

[biznesswmn]

She knows she is dead wrong

 

[C@ssandr@]

Wow. She's pathetic.

 

[ava2]

If you don't mind, what happened?

 

[DarkJoy]

You want me to kick her derriere for you before or after you eventually catch up?

you are more than welcome to do it before AND after. Lol!

She knows she is dead wrong

Right. This goes to show that the side pieces know they aint right. Like... why do it in the first place if youre going to have all this guilt damn near a decade later?!

Wow. She's pathetic.

Agreed!

 

[silverbuttons]

She's probably trying to avoid any confrontations.

 

[Topsido]

Make her babysit like her life depends on it. You need mummy time.

 

[moneychaser]

Shame, shame ** GoT nun voice**

 

[DarkJoy]

If you don't mind, what happened?

Long story short:

• We were all a HS clique
• She tried to bust in on me and my man. She ousted from the crew
• Advent of social media 10 years later and they stay in soft touch #whyihatefacebook
• Another 10 years, 2 marriages and 3 baby daddies later for her as a career waitress 20 years and a marriage and baby for us, she makes her move and his dumbass follows

The end. Of everything.

She really did me a favor though...

 

[lux10023]

This is something I may or may not catch a case over

She need her a33 beat but I wouldn't want to give the thing of a male the satisfaction that he was even worth it!

She would need to hide from me to! Ijs

I would come in with fresh baked cookies on the platter thing and beat her upside the head one good time! Walk away like nothing happened, not a pearl or a hair outta place!

 

[DarkJoy]

This is something I may or may not catch a case over

She need her a33 beat but I wouldn't want to give the thing of a male the satisfaction that he was even worth it!

She would need to hide from me to! Ijs

I would come in with fresh baked cookies on the platter thing and beat her upside the head one good time! Walk away like nothing happened, not a pearl or a hair outta place!

But why waste a good batch of cookies over a heaux tho?

Certainly he doesn't deserve the ego boost. Like you said, not worth it.

And anyway, i let him have it when i found out

Petty betty me...

 

[LiftedUp]

What? Your friend, your husband? Oh he'll naw

 

[DarkJoy]

Shame, shame ** GoT nun voice**

Took me a minute to get this! That was a great scene and perfect for this situation! Bih sure is shame. Its obvious. Why get in and continue a relationship you cant take pride in and flaunt freely?

And fwiw, he told me years ago he would never marry her. Well, joke's on her!

 

[hopeful]

She certainly did do you a favor. He got himself a nice, weak-minded woman there. Good for him and her. Sounds like they are equally yoked.

 

[felic1]

Wow. I am glad you are no longer living with him. I am thankful not to be living with my ex husband 24 years after the divorce.

 

[bklynbornNbred]

She's not worth any real effort but have fun punking her.

On the way out yell to the back "you can come out now I'm leaving"

Or move her purse to another table so she knows you know she's hiding in the back.

 

[CarefreeinChicago]

Every time I saw her we would be moving furniture

For real I am glad you are able to take the high road and ignore her.

 

[SpiritJunkie]

Wow! some women are so trifling. she wanted your life all along and still didn't get it.

 

[Rocky91]

man the games i would play.....

 

[tru4reele]

I want to fight her

 

[C@ssandr@]

Yeah, I cosign moving her ish around or giving her a shout out when you come over.

This is the kind of situation where you can cash in on your pettiness.

 

[DarkJoy]

Ya'll about to turn me into a !!!

I was really good at ignoring her hidden shadow presence. I like the idea of moving her crap around... and greeting her through the door.

 

[MzLady78]

DarkJoy gone be like....

 

[Kindheart]

You should say "alright I m leaving ,slam the door " and wait til she comes out . Haha

 

[hopeful]

You should say "alright I m living ,slam the door " and wait til she comes out . Haha

 

[Sosa]

You should say "alright I m leaving ,slam the door " and wait til she comes out . Haha

Unless she peeks thru the window to see when you drive off.
You could park your car outta sight that one day though .

 

[PeaceLover]

Woah. I hate you went through that. I'm super happy you're over it.

 

[ava2]

Long story short:

• We were all a HS clique
• She tried to bust in on me and my man. She ousted from the crew
• Advent of social media 10 years later and they stay in soft touch #whyihatefacebook
• Another 10 years, 2 marriages and 3 baby daddies later for her as a career waitress 20 years and a marriage and baby for us, she makes her move and his dumbass follows

The end. Of everything.

She really did me a favor though...

smdh. How does she sleep at night?
All this time you still have her shook. You should have knocked on the bedroom door, and said, "Hey Girl".

 

[DarkJoy]

smdh. How does she sleep at night?
All this time you still have her shook. You should have knocked on the bedroom door, and said, "Hey Girl".

I really love your casual hey girl approach

But anyhoo...how does HE sleep at night? See she was desperate and obviously stalked for yearsssss. Him? He took the damn vows. Though she's done it a few times so should know...