Why is it when a guy breaks up with you or does something stupid to where you both agree that you're not going to contact each other again he CONTACTS you?
This has happened to me several times over the years. Before the breakup I tried to make it work and they continued to do the same things or act like they weren't interested. I don't do "back together agains", it hurts too much and is a waste of time. You either want me or you don't. Back in the day I ceased all contact and would change my telephone number often. I was notorious. My friends would be like "Girl, I got like seven different numbers for you. LOL" and this was before cellphones, emails, etc. Once I cut you off - YOU'RE CUT OFF. I also wouldn't open my door if I wasn't expecting anyone either, so if they did stop by unannounced they'd be *ish outta luck.
This one guy had a brother that worked for the police department and he found my number through the telephone company. Mind you, I hadn't seen him for about two years or so and I was already in another relationship. I was cold blooded - I asked him why he was calling me and proceeded to tell him I was in a relationship and not to call me anymore. He seemed hurt, but got the message. I never heard from him again. Like, did you REALLY expect me to be waiting or thinking about you after all this time? Please!
I bumped into another guy that I was really into once on the street one day and didn't recognize him. It had been a few years, but he remembered me. He was like "oh man girl, how you been?" all smiling, "You look good" And?? I had to ask him who he was and when he said his name I was like "you got fat" (to myself not to him). This dude used to have the bomb body and was foine. What turned me off from him was the sex. He came in two seconds (one, two strokes) and it was over. Can't say I didn't give him a chance. Anyway, he was trying to get my number and I told him I was in a happy relationship, wished him the best and kept it moving.
Now, there's this guy I was having a long distance "relationship" with for the past year that got mad at me for the upteempth time for calling him an emotional unavailable bastard (which he is). Told me I was crazy, to go f___k myself and that it was over. I called him some more names, told him that I agreed and was happy that we never slept together, so I wasn't going to lose that much sleep over it. I changed my cellphone number (which I was going to do anyway, not just because of him) and thought that was the end of it. This was two weeks ago.
Do you know this fool sent me an email today saying "Still luv me?"
erplexed
I didn't answer. I'm off the emotional rollercoaster with him. I'm sending his emails to spam, eventually he'll get the hint. I honestly don't get why he wants to stay in contact with me. He's a handsome man, smart and plays headgames. He can do that with women in NYC. I can have a gameplayer right here in LA if I wanted that.
Besides being an ex-cop (20 years on the force which I know probably adds to his "issues"), we're both scorpios. Never dealt with a scorpio male before and don't intend to do it again.
Why can't exes STAY exes? There are women all over the place looking for someone, why the need to go back to the past?
This has happened to me several times over the years. Before the breakup I tried to make it work and they continued to do the same things or act like they weren't interested. I don't do "back together agains", it hurts too much and is a waste of time. You either want me or you don't. Back in the day I ceased all contact and would change my telephone number often. I was notorious. My friends would be like "Girl, I got like seven different numbers for you. LOL" and this was before cellphones, emails, etc. Once I cut you off - YOU'RE CUT OFF. I also wouldn't open my door if I wasn't expecting anyone either, so if they did stop by unannounced they'd be *ish outta luck.
This one guy had a brother that worked for the police department and he found my number through the telephone company. Mind you, I hadn't seen him for about two years or so and I was already in another relationship. I was cold blooded - I asked him why he was calling me and proceeded to tell him I was in a relationship and not to call me anymore. He seemed hurt, but got the message. I never heard from him again. Like, did you REALLY expect me to be waiting or thinking about you after all this time? Please!
I bumped into another guy that I was really into once on the street one day and didn't recognize him. It had been a few years, but he remembered me. He was like "oh man girl, how you been?" all smiling, "You look good" And?? I had to ask him who he was and when he said his name I was like "you got fat" (to myself not to him). This dude used to have the bomb body and was foine. What turned me off from him was the sex. He came in two seconds (one, two strokes) and it was over. Can't say I didn't give him a chance. Anyway, he was trying to get my number and I told him I was in a happy relationship, wished him the best and kept it moving.
Now, there's this guy I was having a long distance "relationship" with for the past year that got mad at me for the upteempth time for calling him an emotional unavailable bastard (which he is). Told me I was crazy, to go f___k myself and that it was over. I called him some more names, told him that I agreed and was happy that we never slept together, so I wasn't going to lose that much sleep over it. I changed my cellphone number (which I was going to do anyway, not just because of him) and thought that was the end of it. This was two weeks ago.
Do you know this fool sent me an email today saying "Still luv me?"
erplexedI didn't answer. I'm off the emotional rollercoaster with him. I'm sending his emails to spam, eventually he'll get the hint. I honestly don't get why he wants to stay in contact with me. He's a handsome man, smart and plays headgames. He can do that with women in NYC. I can have a gameplayer right here in LA if I wanted that.
Besides being an ex-cop (20 years on the force which I know probably adds to his "issues"), we're both scorpios. Never dealt with a scorpio male before and don't intend to do it again.
Why can't exes STAY exes? There are women all over the place looking for someone, why the need to go back to the past?
That's funny. 
I couldn't believe it! I asked him why (cause we didn't have sex) and he told me that he just wanted to see if he could get me. 
