@chebaby Please give bentonite clay another chance. Are you mixing it with an immersion blender or hand-held mixer? That is the SECRET to getting a smooth mix. If you use a whisk or some other implement to mix it, it won't be mixed enough, go on smoothly or wash out easily.
Your mix should be the consistency of yogurt or a DC like Sitrinillah or Banana Brulee (light and fluff). I mix it for 30 seconds to a minute, apply it and massage my scalp for about a minute or two. I either steam for about 30 minutes or just leave it on for about an hour. It rinses out so easily and sometimes I don't need to do a DC afterwards, 'cause my hair is so soft and clean. I hate to see you give up and not reap the benefits.
@IDareT'sHair I can't wait to pick up my pkg from the P.O. tomorrow.
@Priss Pot Your hair is so pretty and those curls are popping!