Thanks ladies. Well the update on the situation he told me y he has been late on the rent. He said that he went to a title loan place and he owes money for that, he had two checking accounts sent to a collection agency, and he is paying half of the light bill at his grandmother's house. I asked him y he didnt tell me and he said he doesnt want people all in his business. I then told him until the damn sheriff knocked on our door at 6:00 n the morning i wasnt but now i am. Its really a hard decison i dont know wheter to leave or stay. I am getting very depressed over this issue. Since I graduated from college im focusing my enery on finding a job, and then decided wheter to stay or get my own place 4 me and my son. I dont know y he is so childish, I sometimes look at the things he do and wonder do u c how stupid im acting. I just want to smack the mess out of him, I dont know ladies im very confused.