I bet my products will change but here they are as of July 2010:
Moisturizers: butters, cremes, and butters. My current favorites are from Qhemet Biologics - Burdock Root and Amla and Olive Heavy Cream, and Afroveda's Curl Define and Totally Twisted Ginger Almond Butter.
Oils: Coconut Oil. I love it for my skin too.
Conditioner: I am new to co-washing. I was a Creme of Nature stan but when they changed the formula, I had to find alternatives. I like Suave Coconut for now. I am constantly trying other conditioners all the time.
Leave-In: IC reconstructor, Kids Organic Shea Butter Lotion or Motions spray leave-in
Detangler: My leave-ins detangle most of the time.
I'm noticing that detangling isn't an issue with most that have posted - true?