Go to the dermatologist if you can. There may be some treatment to help. In the meantime, I've read that Jamaican black castor oil or regular castor oil works. Maybe you could massage that into your scalp.
I have a form of alopecia and am currently using verdeso foam topically and a strong antibiotic monodox when I remember. My derm thinks that I have general inflammation in my body, which may or may not be associated with a thyroid imbalance. I'm jacked up.
Maybe it would be helpful to have some blood work done?
I hope things wok out for you. Sending hugs your way.