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You are doing this now? Do you mind telling me about your plan?
You are just leaving the relaxer in for less time now, how often are you relaxing?
How do you make sure not to overprocess/underprocess some parts?
What styles are you wearing?
What products are you using?
So many questions!
I'm really excited I think this might be the way I want to go, it's sort of like having the best of both worlds, you can wear it natural(kind of) or you can straighten if you want.
Any more info?
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Hi, yes I am doing this right now! /images/graemlins/smile.gif Mine happened accidentally, too. I tried self-relaxing and underprocessed. My hair had so much more body than the bone straight look that I was sold. I went to a professional to get the underprocessing fixed and he loosened the curl more than I did, but left the waves in my hair. I love it! Right now, I am experimenting with braidouts, but I mostly wear buns and twisted up-dos. I had a tough go of it at first, but now I have the hang of it. I am still using the same products I used on relaxed hair: salerm, NTM, lacio, nexxus products, GPB, Elucence EMRT, Kenra conditioners, monoi oil, WGO, Elasta Recovery, etc. (yes, I have a big staples list!). The key for me is moisturizing from root to tip! I used to just do the hair ends, because it was all straight, but now I pay close attention to the demarcation line also. I think of it this way: treat your hair as if you always need a touch-up. When the bone straight relaxer got old, you had to do different things than you did when the touch-up was fresh. Basically, now, I have to do those things all the time. Moisture is key and products with detangling properties are quite helpful. That's all I can think of for now. Also, I am 6 weeks post touch-up and I have new growth, but it doesn't bother me like it used to with the bone straight relaxer. I know that I will be able to stretch relaxers longer because my hair is not super straight! This is a surprise benefit for me. In the past I used to go 8 weeks and I know now that I can go longer. Oh, and I have zero plans to cut my relaxed ends until my text. hair is long! /images/graemlins/smile.gif I plan to try to get my hair text. every 12 weeks or so. I am not sure if I will do it myself, or go back to the last person who did it. The key was not smoothing the relaxer. He just put it on and let it sit. That's how I got the waves. HTH