To PDA or Not to PDA... that is the question!

[music-bnatural-smile]

I adore my SO!!!!
I love grabbin his face and huggin him and kissin him and holdin his hand and all that no matter where we are!
he is so painfully shy and he won't push me off of him but he never starts it and I would be like if he did...
do u guys love it or hate it?
do u guys get in fights because of it?

just bored and wonderin yalls opinions

 

[Ladybug33]

I love it and so does he. I think i initiate it more though.

This is usually me

 

[barbiesocialite]

He loves it! I love him so I don't push him away.

He is both very affectionate and outgoing so it doesnt matter where we are, he likes kissing/hugging/touching/loving me. I'm the shy, introverted one so I'm naturally not as quick to be up under someone but I've been workin on it lol

sometimes i wish he'd cut the PDA down from 24/7 to about 20/7 lol... sometimes i just wanna watch tv or play on the computer in in peace...in my own chair, not sitting on his lap, without him kissing on my shoulder or holding my hand

Let me stop being a stubborn brat; I like the attention and doting. The man puts me on a pedestal and acts like I'm the best thing since slice bread. I am grateful and blessed to have him

 

[Serenity_Peace]

^^^ Consider yourself lucky and VERY blessed. I'd give anything to have a man like that. I'm one of those insecure types of women...when it comes to that.

 

[barbiesocialite]

^^^ Consider yourself lucky and VERY blessed. I'd give anything to have a man like that. I'm one of those insecure types of women...when it comes to that.

awwww i dont think desiring human affection makes anyone insecure at all. I actually think my behavior is a bit abnormal...and can be selfish at times which is why ive been consciously working on it for the past few months

 

[Serenity_Peace]

^^^ I always admire people who are proactive in addressing their shortcomings. Way to go!

 

[cutiepiebabygirl]

I'm not a fan of PDA. I don't like hand-holding, kissing, hugging, holding each other while walking. I'm really weird like that. My mom and my best friend think I'm weird.

Behind closed doors, that's another story!! LOL

I don't mind others doing it ...as long as it's not pornographic! LOL

Nothing worse than watching to people literally make out in front you!

 

[BeautifulFlower]

Love it. My "friend" is big PDA guy. I love that he feels like he can show me off. Such an ego booster.

 

[Livingmylifetothefullest]

I'm not one for PDA, something about touching out in public just disgusts me. I don't know why I feel this way but I always have. The same goes for others who display this.

 

[Nayeli]

He likes it and I've come to like it too. Moderate though - handholding, pecks on the cheeks and lips, hands on waist, knees etc - I'm not for the excessive stuff.

 

[Nyssa28]

I love mild forms of it!

 

[music-bnatural-smile]

argh barbie luckeee
mine's version of PDA is the eye contact... very intense... however... i want to be smothered...
and serenity i dont know if you're really insecure but I know i am lol thats why i love it I be all suspicious when I don't get my eye contact LOL

 

[Chriselle83]

oops... I was using my mouse to read the questions... I vote "i feel like its important". now we used to get into it about the handholding in public, but he's come to see things my way... sometimes I even get an unexpected kiss or two in public... but if I mention it he is really uncomfortable about it.

 

[spelmanlocks]

I'm not a huge fan of it, unless its hugging or holding hands. DH loves it, sometimes he gets a little to playful for me and I have to give him the evil eye to make him back up.

 

[brownbeauty196]

Im not a huge fan of it and neither is Dh. We do hold hands and will kiss each other goodbye and things like that. Some couples seem to do this like they are trying to prove something. Why start grabbing your SO and kissing him or her in front of a group of people? Its ok to show mild forms of pda but when your making out in front of people that usually stems from insecurity in my opinion.

 

[PeaceFlow]

oooOOO

I was just out shopping with SO today and we couldn't stop the hand holding, kissing and touching. I love being in love in outside and this is a great thing about our relationship but I couldn't talk for anyone else on how important it is. It works for us.

I used to be grossed out by the lovey dovey stuff when I was younger, I do not know what has happened to me We are one of those couples that make people upset, I try to meet my single friends alone now coz I can't be doing with the comments.

 

[gabulldawg]

I'm not good at the whole PDA thing. I prefer for the man to take the initiative so I can have the green light on what is okay and not okay. Guys tend to be the ones to get funny about how much PDA they want to show, especially in front of their friends. I'm all for PDA, but I don't like it when it goes overboard. A nice peck on the lips is okay. A french kiss??

 

[DMJ's Mom]

I think it is an important thing. I don't think I could be with DH if he wouldn't hold my hand, give me a quick kiss or even hug me in public. We don't overdo, like pretty much making out with each other in public. I think we are both like that.

 

[cupcakes]

i love it and so does he.
we hold hands, hug, kiss, and feed each other in public

 

[Britt]

We don't.. a peck here and there... but that's about it.
I don't like to see people tonguing down each other in public. But holding hands, and hugging, or quick kisses are kinda cute.

 

[skegeesmb]

I voted its not important in our relationship. I mean we do some type of PDA ie: Hold hands, or I'll put my hand around his waist or give him a little hug, but we're not the type who puts our hands in each others pant pocket or slobbering each other down in public.

 

[DarkAngell]

We love it. We're always clinging onto each other and giving little kisses. And we're ALWAYS holding hands or arm and arm. Usually tasteful althought i will admit theres alittle butt grab once in a while. We're not tongueing each other down or heavily groping each other in public though. I hate that.

 

[anon123]

I've never been big on PDA. I don't mind hand holding and can actually enjoy it if we're doing a leisurely stroll. But I find it annoying if we are actually walking to get to a place, or on a crowded city sidewalk, cuz it messes up how I walk. I also don't like kissing in public or touching butts or anything like that, lol. Yeah, hand holding or leaning on his shoulder or something like that is cute.