Enyo
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Threesome About to Become a Twosome UPDATED!!
Even though I'm not very active in the LGBT community, I do have a few friends that are lesbian or bisexual. One of them (I'll call her Jane) was over last night and told me that she was falling for a mutual female friend of ours (I'll call her Karen). To start, I hate when people tell me about feelings towards mutual friends because it's awkward. I know Jane is gay/bi friendly because we talk about girls around/to her and she listens and sometimes asks questions.
Jane is going to separate herself from Karen because it's a serious conflict. The three of us are pretty close - we go out at least once a week and text a lot. Jane is not going to say anything to Karen because she doesn't want her to know. She's just going to fade out and I'm sure Karen is going to notice. And, of course, I cannot tell Karen that Jane and I are still hanging out because it would hurt her feelings.
This situation sucks feet. I have had to separate myself from people who I caught feelings for, but they weren't part of a clique or group. Advice? Thanks in advance.
Even though I'm not very active in the LGBT community, I do have a few friends that are lesbian or bisexual. One of them (I'll call her Jane) was over last night and told me that she was falling for a mutual female friend of ours (I'll call her Karen). To start, I hate when people tell me about feelings towards mutual friends because it's awkward. I know Jane is gay/bi friendly because we talk about girls around/to her and she listens and sometimes asks questions.
Jane is going to separate herself from Karen because it's a serious conflict. The three of us are pretty close - we go out at least once a week and text a lot. Jane is not going to say anything to Karen because she doesn't want her to know. She's just going to fade out and I'm sure Karen is going to notice. And, of course, I cannot tell Karen that Jane and I are still hanging out because it would hurt her feelings.
This situation sucks feet. I have had to separate myself from people who I caught feelings for, but they weren't part of a clique or group. Advice? Thanks in advance.
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