Three Years Later...

Rastafarai said:
Frizzy, I've got no feelings (other than revenge, maybe, and to see him attempt to crawl back)...I just want to see what he has to say...after all these years. Not that it matters...but still...I could have some fun with this...I know, I shouldn't! :lol:
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You are feeling me.

As long as you are at not risk of getting sucked in, I would want to hear what happened, but on the other hand he's got a bunch of BS going on, and you don't need his broads calling you about him. Have fun with it!
 
hopeful said:
Okay, so no apology? Just if you want more info, YOU can contact him? Girl please ignore this fool. He sounds like a big, fat, hot mess. Don't give him one more minute of your time or energy.
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Yeah, but I think he wants to see if I'm open to hearing an apology.

So I just got word that he's just ended things with the woman he left me for. A wedding was supposedly called off... :rofl:
 
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Rastafarai said:
Yeah, but I think he wants to see if I'm open to hearing an apology.

So I just got word that he's just ended things with the woman he left me for. A wedding was supposedly called off... :rofl:
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Why not just apologize then? He's up to the same no good.
 
Rastafarai said:
...I actually wanted to use this opportunity to show him that he didn't break me and that I'm doing quite well. I want to see him beg and based on the response of a member who saw his message, it looks like that's precisely what he is after...another chance...:lol: :lol:
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Rastafarai Gloating really isn't a cute look. You always show better than you can tell. I am sure he has heard through the grapevine how fine you are doing. If you heard part of his story via the grapevine. If you weren't doing so swell, I am sure he wouldn't even bother you. I still say let it be.
 
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Rastafarai said:
Frizzy, I've got no feelings (other than revenge, maybe, and to see him attempt to crawl back)...I just want to see what he has to say...after all these years. Not that it matters...but still...I could have some fun with this...I know, I shouldn't! :lol:
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Rastafarai, if you've really moved on, then just keep moving.

Please don't spend time, thought and energy on what you don't want. Put your energy toward your own goals, not your ex's failures. If you devote time to thinking about him -- even for revenge sake-- then he's delaying your progress. Does that make sense?
 
Pat Mahurr said:
Rastafarai, if you've really moved on, then just keep moving.

Please don't spend time, thought and energy on what you don't want. Put your energy toward your own goals, not your ex's failures. If you devote time to thinking about him -- even for revenge sake-- then he's delaying your progress. Does that make sense?
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Blocking blessings at it's finest.
 
IMO, I don't think it's worth it to try and get revenge on him. It's easy for revenge to turn into curiosity about possibly being in a relationship with him again. TRUST, what he's going through with his new "ex" is torture enough.
 
I would ignore him. After 3 years, sending a text isn't really an effort to get back in contact. If he showed up at your house or actually phoned you, only then would there be something to wonder about.
 
melissa-bee said:
I would ignore him. After 3 years, sending a text isn't really an effort to get back in contact. If he showed up at your house or actually phoned you, only then would there be something to wonder about.
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He lives overseas and doesn't have my number. ;)
 
He responded with an apology. Went into explanation as to why he did what he did, how he has matured, etc....also mentioned how I was someone who he wanted to grow with, etc etc...


...well, I got my closure. :)
 
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