"They always come back"
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FlowerHair
Reclaiming my time
Yes they do 
It's up to you if you want to take him back or not.
My advice: don't.
It's up to you if you want to take him back or not.
My advice: don't.
AstroQueen77
Well-Known Member
Time and time again I have seen it. That dosen't mean he has changed, though. A man would have to turn a complete genuine 180 before I could consider taking him back again....
Crystalicequeen123
Well-Known Member
Yes OP, most guys usually DO come back. I don't know if it's because of curiosity, genuine regret, or just to see if you still "got it bad" for them, but either way...most of them DO come back somehow...some way.
Mine has already started trying to come back a little bit...and he's still in another relationship! He must think I'm stupid.
He would have to darn near worship the ground I walk on, and be my personal servant 24/7 in order for me to take him back. 
Yea tell me about it. Even then I would have to be giving him the sideways eye all the time. LOL!
OMG...I remember this Mariah Carey song! I used to love this song! I'm gonna go find it on my ipod. This is a a classic "breakup" song...it's so upbeat. I love it.
Mine has already started trying to come back a little bit...and he's still in another relationship! He must think I'm stupid.
He would have to darn near worship the ground I walk on, and be my personal servant 24/7 in order for me to take him back. Yea tell me about it. Even then I would have to be giving him the sideways eye all the time. LOL!
Its funny because I would have to say yes. In my experience they have, and by that time I am like "Who are you???"
So yeah, "Someday aaaaa aaaa, the one you gave away will be the only one your wishing for." Mariah Carey
OMG...I remember this Mariah Carey song! I used to love this song! I'm gonna go find it on my ipod. This is a a classic "breakup" song...it's so upbeat. I love it.
ThatJerseyGirl
Well-Known Member
They'll always call back. I don't care what kicked off, good or bad, they always call back. Now come back, that is entirely up to you and how you carry it.
BrownieBrie
Well-Known Member
They always come back, but not always with good intentions. Sometimes they are just lonely/horny whatever and want somebody warm and familiar.
MissMeWithThatIsh
New Member
They try to but I stay face forward.
Creatividual
Well-Known Member
In my experiences, they always come back and you have to decide if they have genuinely changed and if you want to give them another chance or not.
kryolnapps
Active Member
Yup. Every. Single. One.
I made the mistake of taking my first ex back and let's just say I learned a valuable lesson: an ex is an ex for a reason.
I made the mistake of taking my first ex back and let's just say I learned a valuable lesson: an ex is an ex for a reason.
rayness
New Member
You ain't never lied. Same thing happened to me. Will not go there ever again. Ten years later and the man still had not changed. As a matter of fact he was worse 10 years later. Boy did I learn a lot from him. I learned what I don't want in a man.
But yes in my experience most of them try to come back. With the exception of one that I let get away.
daydreem2876
carpe diem
phynestone
Well-Known Member
Some of mine have. I had already moved on.
aribell
formerly nicola.kirwan
Maybe this should be another thread, but do people really change? I personally know that people can change, and have seen some people change, but it's been over a whole lot of years.
How often is it that people really experience someone coming back and being such a different person than before?
How often is it that people really experience someone coming back and being such a different person than before?
AstroQueen77
Well-Known Member
I think that people grow...and that takes years, time, and life experiences. During that time you can be with someone that is already grown.
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