The *signs* of interest...

[seraphinelle]

I've realized recently that I'm not entirely a lost cause when it comes to flirting.

But how do you know when the flirting isn't just flirting and there actually is an interest?

What signs do you look out for?

 

[Hil84figer]

Yeah what are the signs? I'm totally clueless. Is cracking jokes a form of flirting. Because when I get near guys my sarcasm and jokes become more pronounce. I can't seem to help it.

But back to the topic, what are the signs?

***Leaves to get pad to take down notes***

 

[MizzBrown]

My boyfriend would stare at me all the time. Even when I caught him, he didn't care, he still sat right there and stared at me among other things. He was just obvious. It was funny to me.

-Staring
-Getting nervous when talking to you, voice changes, stutters.
-Asking you personal questions
-Finding any excuse to touch you
-He suddenly appears all the time and youre always "running into him"
-Lots of compliments

 

[seraphinelle]

Yeah what are the signs? I'm totally clueless. Is cracking jokes a form of flirting. Because when I get near guys my sarcasm and jokes become more pronounce. I can't seem to help it.

But back to the topic, what are the signs?

***Leaves to get pad to take down notes***

LOL, you and me both.

 

[dlewis]

My boyfriend would stare at me all the time. Even when I caught him, he didn't care, he still sat right there and stared at me among other things. He was just obvious. It was funny to me.

-Staring
-Getting nervous when talking to you, voice changes, stutters.
-Asking you personal questions
-Finding any excuse to touch you
-He suddenly appears all the time and youre always "running into him"
-Lots of compliments

I agree.


I just know.

 

[seraphinelle]

I agree.


I just know.

Well can you take a trip up to Canada so you can observe??

 

[seraphinelle]

bumpppppppp

 

[Colliecole]

My boyfriend would stare at me all the time. Even when I caught him, he didn't care, he still sat right there and stared at me among other things. He was just obvious. It was funny to me.

-Staring
-Getting nervous when talking to you, voice changes, stutters.
-Asking you personal questions
-Finding any excuse to touch you
-He suddenly appears all the time and youre always "running into him"
-Lots of compliments

So true! When I worked at Starbucks there was this young guy who would constantly find an excuse to reach over me to get something and lightly touch my waist with the opposite hand. And since we worked in a tight space it was always "oh my bad"...I'm like you know you did that on purpose! He finally admitted to crushing on me 2 weeks later.

 

[strenght81]

The obvious one "can I give you a call sometime" (those are the ones I reject, I like the ones I have to chase, and don't want me)

Other than that I have no clue, I have really poor judgement these days.

 

[Glitter]

The obvious one "can I give you a call sometime" (those are the ones I reject, I like the ones I have to chase, and don't want me)

Other than that I have no clue, I have really poor judgement these days.

You and me both. What's wrong with us?

 

[Glitter]

My boyfriend would stare at me all the time. Even when I caught him, he didn't care, he still sat right there and stared at me among other things. He was just obvious. It was funny to me.

-Staring
-Getting nervous when talking to you, voice changes, stutters.
-Asking you personal questions
-Finding any excuse to touch you
-He suddenly appears all the time and youre always "running into him"
-Lots of compliments

Dang, where was this thread a few weeks ago? I was with this guy, hanging out. At one point, my shoes were off and he kept touching my feet. We were also watching a movie and he felt the need to rest his head on my stomach...and I sat there, like a brick because I didn't want to read into things. erplexed

I am socially awkward.

 

[Ms. Plain Jane]

Dang, where was this thread a few weeks ago? I was with this guy, hanging out. At one point, my shoes were off and he kept touching my feet. We were also watching a movie and he felt the need to rest his head on my stomach...and I sat there, like a brick because I didn't want to read into things. erplexed

I am socially awkward.

He wants to give you babies.

 

[JewelleNY]

I like this thread, keep em coming ladies

When I really like a guy I notice that I will touch him without planning to. I was walking down the hallway next to my crush on Friday and I almost reached out and touched his waist when I said hi I had to literally hold my hand down.

 

[JewelleNY]

He wants to give you babies.

I had a guy who used to do this. He loved to lay his head in my lap, he's definitely a mother's boy and probably sees you as someone he could marry

 

[Glitter]

I had a guy who used to do this. He loved to lay his head in my lap, he's definitely a mother's boy and probably sees you as someone he could marry

!
He actually is a huge mother's boy. I spent a lot of time with him in Philly (I was visiting for the weekend) and he started to ask me all these questions I thought were random: "Are you religious?", "Do you want kids?", "How many guys have you been with before?" -- all questions that I thought were strange because they came out of left field. I just shrugged it off since I've known the guy since the first day of college.

 

[Glitter]

He wants to give you babies.

Hahaha, this statement shocked me. I really liked him too...since our weekend together, I can't stop thinking about him. Maybe I'll give him a call sometime in the near future.

 

[caribeandiva]

Signs a guy likes you:

• Staring -like someone said earlier, it's a dead giveaway just like touching you.
• Always trying to keep talking to you even when you tell him you gotta go
• Calling you just to catch up
• Teasing - yeah guys are that immature sometimes
• Your friends tell you He was asking about you
• His friends/ family members tell you that he likes you <- dead giveaway
• He's always complimenting you
• He remembers the most trivial things you told him.. months later!
• He hates to see you sad so he's always trying to make you smile

 

[frankie]

His face lights up when he sees you...that's a dead giveaway.
I also have to agree with STARING!!!
Others tell you that they see 'the way' he looks at you...especially when you are unaware that he's looking at you.

 

[MizzBrown]

His face lights up when he sees you...that's a dead giveaway.
I also have to agree with STARING!!!
Others tell you that they see 'the way' he looks at you...especially when you are unaware that he's looking at you.

Yes! Everyone at work teased me cause they saw me and my SO making "googly eyes" at each other. And they would always catch the way he looked at me like i was gonna disappear any moment.

 

[Colliecole]

I like this thread, keep em coming ladies

When I really like a guy I notice that I will touch him without planning to. I was walking down the hallway next to my crush on Friday and I almost reached out and touched his waist when I said hi I had to literally hold my hand down.

Go for it!!!!!!

Funny story, on my first date with my SO we were sitting at this park, feeling kindof akward being so close to one another. He said something suggestive, and to break the ice I reached over and grabbed his........ I grabbed it softly, and didn't reach down his pants or anything but his jaw dropped in shock!! I don't know what came over me but we both laughed about it and ended up kissing a few moments later.

I say, if you feel like touching him do it. All men wanna be touched by a pretty woman (even the not so pretty ones). And if he acts weird...he's probably got some issues you don't want to get involved with anyway. Subtle touches can drive a person crazy! Especially men, because their minds starts imagining stuff up ::::

(oh...and what I did to my SO...not my definition of subtle LOL)

 

[caribeandiva]

The obvious one "can I give you a call sometime" (those are the ones I reject, I like the ones I have to chase, and don't want me)
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