nuance7
New Member
Hello Ladies...
I'm going to ask a questions and would like you to REALLY take a moment to think before replying. I ask this because I'm seeing a trend in the responses to relationship questions and am curious to whats really going on.
Are we to QUICK to cut him off...move on...kick him to the curb...early on in the relationship????
I ask that you think before answering because often times we respond out of our past hurtful experiences, information from books such as He's just not that into you....or think like a man act like a lady....as if the authors are the SOLE authority to relationships.
I do feel like very useful information can come from suh sources, however, do we take it to extremes?
If you meet someone and are getting to know them...why would you expect daily multiple calls frm day one...why would you expect him to introduce you as his girlfriend in week 4? And if he doesn't why would you kick him to the curb? Why couldn't he see you and someone else in the early stages of dating while BOTH of you decide if you want to move the dating phase to something more?
Why do we expect committed and we've just me the person? Any testimonies from ladies who WOULD NOT be in an exclusive relationship NOW if you would have listened to all the KICK HIM TO THE CURBERS?
Think FIRST, then reply....Let's talk.....
I'm going to ask a questions and would like you to REALLY take a moment to think before replying. I ask this because I'm seeing a trend in the responses to relationship questions and am curious to whats really going on.
Are we to QUICK to cut him off...move on...kick him to the curb...early on in the relationship????
I ask that you think before answering because often times we respond out of our past hurtful experiences, information from books such as He's just not that into you....or think like a man act like a lady....as if the authors are the SOLE authority to relationships.
I do feel like very useful information can come from suh sources, however, do we take it to extremes?
If you meet someone and are getting to know them...why would you expect daily multiple calls frm day one...why would you expect him to introduce you as his girlfriend in week 4? And if he doesn't why would you kick him to the curb? Why couldn't he see you and someone else in the early stages of dating while BOTH of you decide if you want to move the dating phase to something more?
Why do we expect committed and we've just me the person? Any testimonies from ladies who WOULD NOT be in an exclusive relationship NOW if you would have listened to all the KICK HIM TO THE CURBERS?
Think FIRST, then reply....Let's talk.....