IMFOCSD
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i have a friend who i feel so bad for. She is in a relationship with a guy & although they love each other she has found out that he is not over his ex (and babymother) she actually feels he is still in love with her. They live in DC together but are from another state. Him & the BM have been keeping in touch via Email & she kinda read some conversations that they were having and they obviously still love each other...she still has a hold on him.
I have been told to stay out of it & let her make her own decision but I want to give her some advice...HELP!
ETA: The BM is not a good person, she is very manipulative. They broke up a year ago, they were together for About 4-5 yrs and have been through alot. My friend has not even been with her man for a year yet. My friend just moved to DC about a week ago but her BF has been there for about six months. He had been begging my friend to move with him. I think the BM knows he is lonely and is just in his ear. The emails were from a month to a month & a half ago...not once did he ask the BM to move with him so idk what to say. She did say that he is not over her & she could tell that he possibly misses her..but he has also said that he doesn't think of anything else when my friend is around (this was b4 she moved with him)
I have been told to stay out of it & let her make her own decision but I want to give her some advice...HELP!
ETA: The BM is not a good person, she is very manipulative. They broke up a year ago, they were together for About 4-5 yrs and have been through alot. My friend has not even been with her man for a year yet. My friend just moved to DC about a week ago but her BF has been there for about six months. He had been begging my friend to move with him. I think the BM knows he is lonely and is just in his ear. The emails were from a month to a month & a half ago...not once did he ask the BM to move with him so idk what to say. She did say that he is not over her & she could tell that he possibly misses her..but he has also said that he doesn't think of anything else when my friend is around (this was b4 she moved with him)
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