barbiesocialite
Well-Known Member
Yay or nay?
Never dated outside of my race (and never will) but for fun, hell no. That's disrespectful.
So like a Paul Wall type?I wouldn't date a nonblack man who didn't so I mean
So like a Paul Wall type?
Hell no. And I wouldn't date a white man anyway. I have figured out that they think we are beneath them anyway, whether they date us or befriend us.
I'm not computing how this is an actual question. But then again .... some people have no self-respect.
This is a very lhcf response. Lol
This is a real question lol
It probably is but it was my legit first reaction. Like, huh?
Is he using it regularly? Does he stop when I tell him not to do that anymore?
Is he using it regularly? Does he stop when I tell him not to do that anymore?
That is likely so...I am also gonna assume that the black woman who stays (if this is happening) is just so content with being seen as "different" or "better" so she is ok with it....and I never believe BM or BW who feign ignorance about their white spouses saying the n-word.
You knew. You just didn't have enough dignity to stop dating him.
What I meant was, in the thread this is a spinoff of, there was a white Howard student using it in his posts in the casual way some black men do. If I told him 'actually, that's not cool', would he be 'oh, my bad, didn't realize! i'll stop now'I'm not sure I understand your question. If he wasnt using it regularly OR he stops when you tell him....does that mean he stopped for good?. I'm not coming at you or anything I am just curious.
On another note, I dont know if I told this story before but at the loc salon I go to, a black woman was saying that she was divorcing her white husband because not only did she find out that he was cheating on her but she found some emails that he had been sending back and forth to his friends. It turns out that every time he got mad at her, he'd complain to his friends calling her a n*gger and a black b***h. That really angered me and kind of solidified in my mind that they are all racist no matter what...it's engrained. NOW I KNOW it's just MY opinion.
Anyway I wouldnt date a man out of my race period...and least of all one who uses the n word. HOWEVER, I am ok with using it within my (racial/ethnic) circle and any black many I'm with gets a pass too. I know the context with which I use it and have even used on this board a few times... I am not gonna sit here and be a hypocrite...too old fi dat.
Got it...I'm right there with youNo. This here what she said is what I meant:
Whether he does or doesn't makes no difference because I don't date men that aren't black.