Glib Gurl
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Inspired by the thread about women just "settling" for "Mr. Good Enough" after age 30.
There was some debate as to whether men "settle" --
I know there is no simple yes or no answer to this inquiry, but I'd love to hear this debate further . . .
What do you think on this matter? In your opinion, do men ever "settle"? Do you know any men who have "settled"? What makes you think so? (Was it your male bff who straight told you that he settled?)
There was some debate as to whether men "settle" --
Mr. Good Enough. Funny. No one tells men to settle for Ms. Good Enough. It is always another WOMAN telling WOMEN to settle for Mr. Good Enough.
And I think it's false - esp. when we are talking about the purely physical - to say that men don't settle.
How often have women puzzled over how an 'not quite attractive' looking woman snagged an 'attractive' man? Men just don't agonize over it, and I think that men - esp. men who want to get married - release the quest for Ms. Perfect in search for Ms. Right - who might only be 80% perfect.
That's pretty much my point. That is not settling in a mans eyes.
It's like the saying men don't settle they surrender.
I believe what woman negatively call settling men optimistically call thinking outside the box.
Paying attention to what he's getting vs her paying attention to what she isn't.
I know there is no simple yes or no answer to this inquiry, but I'd love to hear this debate further . . .
What do you think on this matter? In your opinion, do men ever "settle"? Do you know any men who have "settled"? What makes you think so? (Was it your male bff who straight told you that he settled?)