Spinoff-Dealing with an Aries man

[OhmyKimB]

So the glorious pipelaying is not a myth?

Hmmmm..... I still want to try this out. Lemme find an Aries man real quick.

I don't think I'm supposed to be in this thread. But yes. It's a truth.

 

[OhmyKimB]

not just the pipe the entire experience. Nothing left wanting.

yup.

 

[gn1g]

So the glorious pipelaying is not a myth?

Hmmmm..... I still want to try this out. Lemme find an Aries man real quick.

Want a "HAPPY ENDING" get an aries warning it might be a tear jerker.

 

[Country gal]

I'm the same way. I rarely get really seeing red angry, that's reserved for times when I'm about to go OFF. But if I get regular petty mad about something, I'm mad, I take a moment, and I'm over it. I don't want to talk about it for hours and hours I will never bring it up again in a fight - it's done for me. My SO is a libra and he will dig things out of NOWHERE and want to discuss things forever. I think when I say I'm "over it" it's hard for people to accept -- but it's kind of like a spring thunderstorm....10 minutes later you can't even tell it rained.

I'm the same way. The Taurus I dated got on my nerves with it.

 

[Country gal]

not just the pipe the entire experience. Nothing left wanting.

Sadly that was not my case. He didn't have no pipe more like a screw and sex was not all that.

 

[Extremus]

I was in a 5 year relationship with an Aries. I am an Aries. Interesting to say the least. When we had arguments. He would go off, hoop and hollar and than swash it. Once he swashed it, he didn't want to talk about it anymore. He loved his space. I loved my space. He liked a lot of attention. He also loved to be the hero, the savior.

You described both my Aries/Aries relationship.

I'm an Aries and the longest relationships have been with other Aries.

 

[DaPPeR]

I am an Aries, and I don't think Aries and Cancer is a good mix. I tried dating one once and it was an atrocious mess...like oil and water. erplexed

You are sooo correct about Aries and Cancers. I have dealt with a Aries for the pass 3 years. He is still the a-hole he was back in '06. We don't seem to quite go together. It doesn't help that he is long distance neither. I cut him off for something "bad" that he does, and he comes back with kind words and we start talking again. He needs to leave me alone

 

[DaPPeR]

bossy, liars, rude, arrogant, not fun to be around. and this is coming from an aries woman.

RUDE INDEED. This is for all Aries men I have dealt with, so I have made my decision to say that they are.
ME: Well, I'm getting alittle sleepy, I will just talk to you tommorrow.
HIM: *CLICK*
ME: smh
This is the Aries man I have dealt with for 3 years

 

[Lilakoi’s_Sister]

RUDE INDEED. This is for all Aries men I have dealt with, so I have made my decision to say that they are.
ME: Well, I'm getting alittle sleepy, I will just talk to you tommorrow.
HIM: *CLICK*
ME: smh
This is the Aries man I have dealt with for 3 years

ughh! you're good cause i would have been left his arse alone!

 

[Belle Du Jour]

I don't know how into this guy you are, but from one Cancer to another, the Aries male is more trouble than he is worth. You'd be better off with a more stable sign. Tauruses have that same aloofness without the butthole. Or at least not the same kind of butthole.

I'ma Cancer and found myself being in a "situation" with an Aries. . . I still think about him, but have moved on. I don't think it would work.

 

[GeorginaSparks]

im a cancer and my SO is an aries. he doesnt have any of these rude, arrogant traits that you guys are describing. he is really smart though(as in a nerd) and can be a snob but thats pretty much it.

 

[Theo]

My roommate is dating an Aries. He is just peculiar. And clingy! Dude is always over at the house, and eating MY FOOD.

 

[Eisani]

Starian, I'm an Aries and you're description was spot on to some of my traits.

I love the chase and i'm very persistent, but not stalkerish tho

I'm very blunt and I never lead people on. One time, i told one boyfriend I simply didn't like having sex with him anymore.

I was involved with a cancer once... dear lord was that a clingy man. omg! I couldn't take it. I kept leaving him, then "going back home" because he offered stability and he loved me. I like guys who love me, but he was wayyyyy to touchy feeling, all up in my space.

and i don't don't pretty boys. no way.

I have lots of friends and I love to hangout. but I'm really a loner, if that makes sense.

darn, i should have been born an aried dude.

I'm an Aries as well. I remember a guy I wasn't interested in asked for my number and I told him "You don't want my number, I ain't ish." The whole room got quiet but I proceeded to tell him that I'm really not interested so after his initial call, I'd list his number as "do not answer" in my cell and would never answer again, so what would be the point. Yes, I do have major a-hole tendencies, but I really don't care. I like to be social (when I'm in the mood), but I'm perfectly fine being by myself. I actually need that alone time with my own thoughts and take about an hour everyday after work, go in my room and just be quiet. I can't stand a clingy, touchy feely man. Ugh. And you BETTER have your own set of friends and not expect to be around me and mine all the time, I don't wanna be your best friend if I'm your woman. That's just me.

I love Aries men; that aloofness, arrogance, take charge/HNIC demeanor, fiery intense passion, sense of humor, attractiveness, intelligence (good lord, stimulate my mind and it's on and poppin! No better foreplay (IMO)...we just "get" each other. I'm not upset or offended if he's in a funky mood or wants to be alone because I understand and can respect that. My current SO is an Aries (3 days apart) and I've dated 3 others. We always get along well and the sex is

I think I read somewhere Cancer/Aries are the least compatable. Aries/Capricorn, Aries/Pisces too . Maybe it's just me. I like Cap and some Pisces women, but the men I cannot STAND

 

[Eisani]

RUDE INDEED. This is for all Aries men I have dealt with, so I have made my decision to say that they are.
ME: Well, I'm getting alittle sleepy, I will just talk to you tommorrow.
HIM: *CLICK*
ME: smh
This is the Aries man I have dealt with for 3 years

I'm sorry but this is hilarious to me. Maybe because I'm notorious for hanging up on people when the mood strikes. Nah, leave him alone girl.

Does he fuss a lot? Just in general?

 

[gn1g]

snobbish fo'sho and clingy.

 

[deltagyrl]

Aries here. Never dated another Aries but I agree w/ the loner, snob, aloof characterization. I am notorious for hanging up on people (only those who've pissed me off though) and I do get down with the get down. I will make a brotha

 

[LadyA0784]

I'm a Cancer and my SO is an Aries and we get along just fine. He has his moments where he TRIES to be rude or act stank about one thing or another, but I'm real quick to let him know I'm not havin' it and he usually learns to not repeat those acts in the future. We've been together off an on for about 6 years and overall, he's the only person that I've ever been with that actually gets me, which is probably his best quality. I couldn't see myself being with anyone else

 

[DaPPeR]

Bumping.....

 

[Sunrise]

They are seemingly arrogant and will make you believe they have ***-holish tendencies. Usually, this is correct.

However, once you get to know them you discover they are really very private and value discreetness and not having their business all over the place. They are not as wild as they portray. In fact, the Aries that I have dealt with are actually pretty shy despite the whole being a fire sign thing.

They like the chase. It's okay to play a little hard to get. They prefer it. Resist the urge to just give in to them immediately, even if you want them in the worst way. Throw yourself at them and they lose interest.
(I don't have time for this ****. If I want you I tell you and you do what you will with it. That's probably why I've never had a relationship with an Aries work out.)

They appreciate a pretty face, but it won't keep them. Compatibility is important, as well as being able to hold a conversation. As one Aries told me, "There are only so many positions I can put you in. Eventually, I'll want to talk about politics or gun control."

They don't believe in leading you on. They will let you know when the relationship is a lost cause, or when they want to bail out for another reason. They may still sleep with you after it's over, but they make no pretense about the sex being anything other than sex. It won't bring them back.

They despise clingy women that won't let them breathe due to jealousy, or loneliness, lack of her own friends, etc. They like to play the knight in shining armor, don't get me wrong. Innocent and seemingly sweet women turn them on. But don't be completely dependent, either.

Leave them alone when they want to be left alone.

This is all based on my personal experiences. I'm married to a Taurus, but the only men ever in my 23 years that have approached me and not the other way round have been Aries.

It has never worked out because I can't change my emotional nature(I'm a Cancer.). I've become less clingy and more aloof in my old age, but emotionally I'm still the same. Arrogant and aloof men turn me on, but I can't tolerate it on more than a sexual level.

But Lawd...can they lay some pipe... So I hear...I was a nun until I fell in love and left my calling for marriage...

Starian, I'm an Aries and you're description was spot on to some of my traits.

I love the chase and i'm very persistent, but not stalkerish tho

I'm very blunt and I never lead people on. One time, i told one boyfriend I simply didn't like having sex with him anymore.

I was involved with a cancer once... dear lord was that a clingy man. omg! I couldn't take it. I kept leaving him, then "going back home" because he offered stability and he loved me. I like guys who love me, but he was wayyyyy to touchy feeling, all up in my space.

and i don't don't pretty boys. no way.

I have lots of friends and I love to hangout. but I'm really a loner, if that makes sense.

darn, i should have been born an aried dude.

All of the Blue Bold is meeeee to a tee!

Dated an Aries male ONCE - just one date (Born on the same day, 2 years apart). I'm a laid back, chilled, slow burner temperament Aries and I found his fiery temper hard to deal with. This is coming from an Aries girl.

I swear, some Aries Trait and Daddy issues don't mixed.

 

[Marley4920]

Well Im a Sag and Im in love with an Aries man. I dont find him arrogant but I do find him very showy. Hes also caring, very laid back, and VERY passive. He lets things build up then explodes though hes never exploded with me. We seem to have this energy when were together. I cant even describe it but its different. He drives me crazy with some of the things he does and he has flaws but the good outweigh the bad with him. We never argue and we learn from each other which is another plus. Sometimes I think people take advantage of him bc he can be too generous and I just want to protect him. We are opposites but yet we are just about the same. Overall, I think Aries and Sagittarius are a good match but mine is a heartbreaker.

Agree. Love, love my Aries Man. I'm a Taurus and we've been together for 6 years. We had a rough patch in the middle... (learning an Aries man and him learning me was a new experience) but we're good now.

I was in a 5 year relationship with an Aries. I am an Aries. Interesting to say the least. When we had arguments. He would go off, hoop and hollar and than swash it. Once he swashed it, he didn't want to talk about it anymore. He loved his space. I loved my space. He liked a lot of attention. He also loved to be the hero, the savior.

Yup. When he's done with a topic he's done. lol. Sometimes I push when I'm trying to get on his nerves, but most of the time I let it go. It's usually not that important.

Both my Aries men wanted to be liked. It was their main concern. Everything was about appearances. They were the "buy everyone a round even when I'm flat broke" type. I hated that.

My Aries is the opposite. That's one of the things I like about him. If he doesn't have it... then he doesn't have it. He wont try to front for anyone. I think his arrogance allows him to be real and whomsoever don't like can kick rocks. I love that about him. And when he does have it, he is very sharing.

I'm an Aries as well. I remember a guy I wasn't interested in asked for my number and I told him "You don't want my number, I ain't ish." The whole room got quiet but I proceeded to tell him that I'm really not interested so after his initial call, I'd list his number as "do not answer" in my cell and would never answer again, so what would be the point. Yes, I do have major a-hole tendencies, but I really don't care. I like to be social (when I'm in the mood), but I'm perfectly fine being by myself. I actually need that alone time with my own thoughts and take about an hour everyday after work, go in my room and just be quiet. I can't stand a clingy, touchy feely man. Ugh. And you BETTER have your own set of friends and not expect to be around me and mine all the time, I don't wanna be your best friend if I'm your woman. That's just me.

I love Aries men; that aloofness, arrogance, take charge/HNIC demeanor, fiery intense passion, sense of humor, attractiveness, intelligence (good lord, stimulate my mind and it's on and poppin! No better foreplay (IMO)...we just "get" each other. I'm not upset or offended if he's in a funky mood or wants to be alone because I understand and can respect that. My current SO is an Aries (3 days apart) and I've dated 3 others. We always get along well and the sex is

ITA with the bolded. Aries men just "get" it. Also very smart and creative, as another poster mentioned.

 

[Marley4920]

All of the Blue Bold is meeeee to a tee!

Dated an Aries male ONCE - just one date (Born on the same day, 2 years apart). I'm a laid back, chilled, slow burner temperament Aries and I found his fiery temper hard to deal with. This is coming from an Aries girl.

I swear, some Aries Trait and Daddy issues don't mixed.

I agree. The fiery temperment is a tough hurdle. For a while, I'd be like this joker is bugging.

 

[gabulldawg]

I'm dating an Aries guy now. It's very interesting to say the least. I'm learning alot with this thread and have been doing some research online. Some of what was said makes sense. He can definitely come off as rude. He's also quiet and shy. Can be aloof at times, but can flip and become the complete opposite (not quite clingy), which has got me SO confused.

He's admitted that he can be moody, short-tempered, and jealous, which seem to be Aries traits.

 

[Supervixen]

I'm a Taurus that has been dating an Aries for years now. I think I have a tolerance for them because my dad is an Aries. They are arrogant as hell, and will get violently mad if they feel they are being fronted off. They are self-righteous and very very very stubborn. They HATE apologizing, instead, you just have to know them to know their lackluster apology. A different side of them being arrogant is they have BIG egos and are very confident in public; that confidence is very attractive. Aries men are also intense, meaning when they get something in their mind, come hell or high water, it's getting done. I think I get respect from my Aries because although he's waaaay more driven than I am about most things, he knows that innately, I'm smarter, I'm just lazy. lol.

Good luck with your new Aries friend, I've had a wonderful ride with mine!!

 

[*Frisky*]

I'm a Taurus that has been dating an Aries for years now. I think I have a tolerance for them because my dad is an Aries. They are arrogant as hell, and will get violently mad if they feel they are being fronted off. They are self-righteous and very very very stubborn. They HATE apologizing, instead, you just have to know them to know their lackluster apology. A different side of them being arrogant is they have BIG egos and are very confident in public; that confidence is very attractive. Aries men are also intense, meaning when they get something in their mind, come hell or high water, it's getting done. I think I get respect from my Aries because although he's waaaay more driven than I am about most things, he knows that innately, I'm smarter, I'm just lazy. lol.

Good luck with your new Aries friend, I've had a wonderful ride with mine!!

Girl you are dead on! This is my husband all day long. He HATES apologizing and it takes him days to do it but I just go on my merry way just waiting for him to come to me with his tail between his legs and he hates that hahahaha...my ride has been interesting too and I wouldn't trade him for nothing.

 

[Marley4920]

I'm a Taurus that has been dating an Aries for years now. I think I have a tolerance for them because my dad is an Aries. They are arrogant as hell, and will get violently mad if they feel they are being fronted off. They are self-righteous and very very very stubborn. They HATE apologizing, instead, you just have to know them to know their lackluster apology. A different side of them being arrogant is they have BIG egos and are very confident in public; that confidence is very attractive. Aries men are also intense, meaning when they get something in their mind, come hell or high water, it's getting done. I think I get respect from my Aries because although he's waaaay more driven than I am about most things, he knows that innately, I'm smarter, I'm just lazy. lol.

Good luck with your new Aries friend, I've had a wonderful ride with mine!!

Wow! Sooo true. And that apology thing erplexed, it's glad to know others have experienced this too. I used to argue (unsuccessfully) for my apology but now I know when he gets quiet, or tries to crack a joke, it means he's really, really sorry.

 

[Supervixen]

My 8 year old nephew is an Aries too, he is displaying the aforementioned characteristics ALREADY, so these traits are ingrained (sp). Like I said, I'm just used to it. Don't let the lack of an apology let you think he isn't sorry, he is, and he'll show you in some other way.

 

[Lucie]

My dad is an Aries and I wouldn't date an Aries man if you paid me. BTW, I am a Cancer. I try not to judge a book by its cover but all of the Aries I've met are liars, rude as hell, hyprocritical, act holier than thou and the list can go on. I would like to meet an Aries man (platonically of course) to eradicate my beliefs. My BFF is an Aries and we get along fabulously.

To the Aries woman that dated male Cancers, I can't stand them either, LOL. Too moody, sensitive and clingy.

 

[Eisani]

I'm a Taurus that has been dating an Aries for years now. I think I have a tolerance for them because my dad is an Aries. They are arrogant as hell, and will get violently mad if they feel they are being fronted off. They are self-righteous and very very very stubborn. They HATE apologizing, instead, you just have to know them to know their lackluster apology. A different side of them being arrogant is they have BIG egos and are very confident in public; that confidence is very attractive. Aries men are also intense, meaning when they get something in their mind, come hell or high water, it's getting done. I think I get respect from my Aries because although he's waaaay more driven than I am about most things, he knows that innately, I'm smarter, I'm just lazy. lol.

Good luck with your new Aries friend, I've had a wonderful ride with mine!!

Everything you said about the Aries man actually fits me to a TEE.

 

[sunflower]

I am an aries and dated an aries man. He was an arrogant, lying so and so. We bumped heads almost daily. I'm sure if you asked him he would say I was arrogant as well. The only good quality the man had was he was great in the bedroom. I think his bedroom skills come from the fact that he was an intense, passionate, person, as many aries are.

 

[Duchesse]

Ugh!! Never again!

I just had an argument with an Aries dude through text message of all things! He couldn't admit that he was in the wrong and initiated being rude and aloof, and tried to flip the script like it was me who was being an a-hole! I'm just happy that I had the last word...Virgos and Aries don't mix well I think.

Arrogant, cocky "I am THE man" syndrome and you must worship me woman attitude, can't admit to being wrong, doesn't know how to communicate directly, reacts with temper tantrums.

Pro's--ambitious, can be sweet.

Pro/con--very manly.