I'm not friends with ANY of my exes. For what?
If you were meant to be "friends", when you first met you'd have been friends. You cannot go backward. Once you've been all in each others bodies, it's really hard to pretend like you're just cool beans with each other. IMO, when it is over, it's over. Unless there are children in common, we have nothing else to talk about.
If you were meant to be "friends", when you first met you'd have been friends. You cannot go backward. Once you've been all in each others bodies, it's really hard to pretend like you're just cool beans with each other. IMO, when it is over, it's over. Unless there are children in common, we have nothing else to talk about.
IME, the whole "let's be friends" right after a break-up doesn't work. I look at it like this, my friends and I talk about who we're interested in, who we're dating, etc. Can you really have that type of convo with someone you were just in a relationship/in love with, and not feel some way? Probably not.
I do believe after some time, once the feelings aren't there anymore, it's possible. But I know from previous threads, a lot of folks are gonna be like when they're done, they're done, there's no need to be ever be friends with an ex. I still maintain it depends on why we split. One of my closest, most trusted friends is my ex from 15 years ago.
I agree with this. One of my closest friends is my ex from 10 years ago. In the years following our breakup, it was really difficult for us to still be friends because feelings were still there. Once we got past that, we were able to build a really great friendship. He and I talk about everything in a way that simply wasn't possible when we first broke up.
So given a certain amount of time, friendship with an ex is possible.
A guy once told me that let's be friends is a way to keep you close so that he can try and hit it from time to time when he is in between relationships. It is very easy to hook up with someone you've slept with before.
Told ya.
I'm not friends with ANY of my exes. For what?
I'm not friends with any of my exes. There are a couple who have qualities I like enough that I think we could be friends, but I'd probably get horny and use them as rainy day penises and mess the whole thing up
See I've never fallen into that trap. I've never had sex with an ex.
I don't think my exes would try to have sex with me. They'd be too scared I'd turn into Lorena Bobbitt.
See I've never fallen into that trap. I've never had sex with an ex. I don't think my exes would try to have sex with me. They'd be too scared I'd turn into Lorena Bobbitt.
Cause you crazy as hell lol
If I'm having a sex drought, I'd rather take the guaranteed good dick to take the edge off. I did this intentionally once (although we were not friends) and it was just what the doctor ordered.
Maybe I could be great friends with an ex with a small, malfunctioning penis.