I believe in compatability. I hear people say 'He is/was my soul mate, he is the one for me". Those type people tend to have a lot of soul mates. And I guess it's nothing wrong with loving that intensely. True love don't have to start with that type of passion, somethimes a person can just dig out a spot in your heart and that could take time. No love is great or lesser of the two. The only important thing is that you love and find love.