Nola Darling
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I had something bad happen to me yesterday...if I hadn't invested SO MUCH into this almost 6 year relationship I would have been off with the wind after this.
Basically we both moved back in with our parents for a while after moving out of state together. When we moved back to ATL we stored all our furniture in his parent's garage. I had one box with random things and some personal papers taped up in there and it was wedged behind TONS of huge dressers, tables, and chairs.
So while visiting his house the other day I found one of my purses out of that box!!! His mother was using it and ruined it! I'm like WTF!?? How did that get here? I should have dumped all her **** out on the floor but I thought maybe I left it there in the past.
Yesterday, we were in his mother's truck moving our furniture to a more secure area and I found some of my graduation address stickers on the floor!!! So I looked in the glove box...MY PERSONAL PAPERS!!! WTF!!!! WTF!!!!
I have no clue WTF she was doing with my papers (Or how she managed to get her fat ass around all that heavy furniture, literally)...I combed their house and didn't find anything else. Luckily, those papers weren't super important. I'm ALWAYS checking my credit so I should be ok. But this makes me burn up!!!
My SO was pretty embarrassed... he's looking for places to live now but dang...I don't even want to move back in with him anymore.
How the hell does one just end a long relationship like that...and not because of cheating, compatibility, or abuse but because of the SOs family??? I really don't have a problem with them until he's around them....maybe I'm making excuses....I feel stupid for letting myself slip by letting that ONE box stay there
I had something bad happen to me yesterday...if I hadn't invested SO MUCH into this almost 6 year relationship I would have been off with the wind after this.
Basically we both moved back in with our parents for a while after moving out of state together. When we moved back to ATL we stored all our furniture in his parent's garage. I had one box with random things and some personal papers taped up in there and it was wedged behind TONS of huge dressers, tables, and chairs.
So while visiting his house the other day I found one of my purses out of that box!!! His mother was using it and ruined it! I'm like WTF!?? How did that get here? I should have dumped all her **** out on the floor but I thought maybe I left it there in the past.
Yesterday, we were in his mother's truck moving our furniture to a more secure area and I found some of my graduation address stickers on the floor!!! So I looked in the glove box...MY PERSONAL PAPERS!!! WTF!!!! WTF!!!!
I have no clue WTF she was doing with my papers (Or how she managed to get her fat ass around all that heavy furniture, literally)...I combed their house and didn't find anything else. Luckily, those papers weren't super important. I'm ALWAYS checking my credit so I should be ok. But this makes me burn up!!!
My SO was pretty embarrassed... he's looking for places to live now but dang...I don't even want to move back in with him anymore.
How the hell does one just end a long relationship like that...and not because of cheating, compatibility, or abuse but because of the SOs family??? I really don't have a problem with them until he's around them....maybe I'm making excuses....I feel stupid for letting myself slip by letting that ONE box stay there
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