some dudes are just SOOO D@MN TRIFLING!!

[Dee-Licious]

damn...well look here my new appointed agent...i need a short term girl to sign a two month contract unlimited action no strings attatched can you make it happen

The above is a message sent to me by a dude who is ENGAGED and invited me to the wedding. Bascially asking me to find/arrange him a f-buddy for now until his wedding.

The nerve of him!!!

Goes to show some dudes don't believe in the commitment until they are married.



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[Whimsy]

Wow. Bastard

 

[Maynard]

So according to Blossom's philosophy....





She was right!

 

[Dee-Licious]

So according to Blossom's philosophy....





She was right!

Basically. And that's why I came and posted a quote of the message here because it's SUCH a coincidence of what we've been talking about... an actual real-life example.

 

[Maa Maa omo mti]

That's why when I want a guy's opinion I go to a guy.

 

[pink_flower]

I knew of several guys who did this before they got married. Most of the time its not their first time stepping out.

Why is he asking you to hook him with someone? Is he asking you to be that girl? Can he not find his own?

 

[gone_fishing]

Do her a favor. Set him up with someone and have her blow his trifling behind out of the water. Someone needs to warn that poor girl until it's too late. You guys are giving him too much credit. Do you really think this will be his last romp. Even if he's telling himself that, I don't buy it. He has no integrity and that won't change after the wedding.

 

[Dee-Licious]

I knew of several guys who did this before they got married. Most of the time its not their first time stepping out.

Why is he asking you to hook him with someone? Is he asking you to be that girl? Can he not find his own?

HELLLLLLLLLLL naw he's not asking me to be that girl!! He KNOWS the foul mouth I can get to make him feel my wrath bigger than me or not.

his frat is my best guy friend and by me often hanging like "one of the guys" he MISTAKINGLY thought I'd help him out...

 

[bimbabe]

This is disgusting!
It is one thing if you go out and accidently meet soembody you have an affair with...but to set out to cheat is dispicable!

 

[CandiceC]

Do her a favor. Set him up with someone and have her blow his trifling behind out of the water. Someone needs to warn that poor girl until it's too late. You guys are giving him too much credit. Do you really think this will be his last romp. Even if he's telling himself that, I don't buy it. He has no integrity and that won't change after the wedding.

He'll be trying to continue that romp and whatever else he can get!!

 

[CandiceC]

Set him up with his fiancee. Have him meet her at a hotel or something.

 

[pink_flower]

HELLLLLLLLLLL naw he's not asking me to be that girl!! He KNOWS the foul mouth I can get to make him feel my wrath bigger than me or not.

his frat is my best guy friend and by me often hanging like "one of the guys" he MISTAKINGLY thought I'd help him out...

Ok just checking

It sounded like he was testing the waters with you for sec.

So what are you gonna do?

 

[lisana]

Re: some dudes are just SOOO D@MN TRIFLING!! was blossssom right?

The above is a message sent to me by a dude who is ENGAGED and invited me to the wedding. Bascially asking me to find/arrange him a f-buddy for now until his wedding.

The nerve of him!!!

Goes to show some dudes don't believe in the commitment until they are married.



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I doubt this guy will believe in it when he is married

 

[locabouthair]

Re: some dudes are just SOOO D@MN TRIFLING!! was blossssom right?

I doubt this guy will believe in it when he is married

I don't think so either.

 

[gone_fishing]

I have a friend who just got married about 2 months ago. He's married to a girl now that I never met. We dated very very briefly about 2.5 years ago. He really liked me but he wasn't my type physically. He was shorter than me and he was sort of chunky. I dated him at a time when I felt like I had to prove I wasn't superficial...lol...turned out I'm more shallow than I thought.

Anyway, he has always kept in contact with me and we've been friends throughout the dating process. I HONESTLY never even kissed this guy. Not even once because he just was not all that attractive to me.

Anyway shortly before his wedding he tells me that he'd leave his girlfriend if I'd leave my boyfriend. ...I'm just gonna post the convo:

 

[Sistaslick]

He must not have put too much $$$ into that engagement ring she's wearing.

 

[gone_fishing]

LewisK (4/22/2007 9:34:18 PM): hey mamma
imissedu (4/22/2007 9:34:42 PM): hi lew lew how are things...
LewisK (4/22/2007 9:35:15 PM): Nothing,just finish playing b-ball
imissedu (4/22/2007 9:36:13 PM): ok, i'm just sitting here doing nothing...make me feel lazy. lol.
LewisK (4/22/2007 9:36:18 PM): lol
LewisK (4/22/2007 9:36:39 PM): Is Ryan there?
imissedu (4/22/2007 9:36:43 PM): oh yeah
imissedu (4/22/2007 9:36:44 PM): always
LewisK (4/22/2007 9:37:09 PM): Oh. I didn't mean to interrupt you
imissedu (4/22/2007 9:37:14 PM): no biggie
imissedu (4/22/2007 9:37:39 PM): he's enamored with the game...i'll just chat for a minute.
LewisK (4/22/2007 9:37:44 PM): We need to talk about business later
imissedu (4/22/2007 9:37:47 PM): no time is the best time
imissedu (4/22/2007 9:37:48 PM): ok
imissedu (4/22/2007 9:37:50 PM): we should
imissedu (4/22/2007 9:37:52 PM): i agree..how's the traveling agency thing going?
LewisK (4/22/2007 9:38:07 PM): Fine, we can talk about that later...You get married yet?
imissedu (4/22/2007 9:38:14 PM): no
imissedu (4/22/2007 9:38:20 PM): not just yet lol
imissedu (4/22/2007 9:38:22 PM): you're funny
imissedu (4/22/2007 9:38:23 PM): we've both been asked about that a lot lately apparently.
LewisK (4/22/2007 9:38:48 PM): You were never that interested in me to have me over all the time? he there's every time i talk to you
imissedu (4/22/2007 9:40:27 PM): oh different time in my life. just got out of a divorce. wasn't ready to settle
imissedu (4/22/2007 9:40:32 PM): but you moved on..got caught up in a new relationship and we stayed friends. that's a good thing.
imissedu (4/22/2007 9:40:34 PM): it's cool
LewisK (4/22/2007 9:40:55 PM): I didn't get caught up, you just took to long.
LewisK (4/22/2007 9:41:00 PM): lol
imissedu (4/22/2007 9:41:02 PM): too long to do what
LewisK (4/22/2007 9:41:10 PM): Get at me
imissedu (4/22/2007 9:41:15 PM): hmmm
imissedu (4/22/2007 9:41:19 PM): what's "get at me"
imissedu (4/22/2007 9:41:24 PM): you were busy
imissedu (4/22/2007 9:41:27 PM): i thought
imissedu (4/22/2007 9:41:31 PM): and yeah i was slow...
imissedu (4/22/2007 9:41:41 PM): but can't cry over spilt milk
imissedu (4/22/2007 9:41:42 PM): mr. spilt
LewisK (4/22/2007 9:41:48 PM): not crying...just saying I tried to date you but you were distant

 

[gone_fishing]

imissedu (4/22/2007 9:41:58 PM): oh no doubt because of the circumstances
imissedu (4/22/2007 9:42:03 PM): ryan puts up with me much better
imissedu (4/22/2007 9:42:13 PM): although i know he still wants to smack me down sometimes
imissedu (4/22/2007 9:42:17 PM): i am very willfull
imissedu (4/22/2007 9:42:21 PM): but i'm also genuine
imissedu (4/22/2007 9:42:23 PM): so..................................
imissedu (4/22/2007 9:42:28 PM): someone will love me one day hopefully
LewisK (4/22/2007 9:43:18 PM): So do you listen to Ryan and will you let him run the household.
imissedu (4/22/2007 9:43:26 PM): household?...we aren't hitched. but if i do end up with him permanently then yeah...he'd be the head of the heousehold and have say so but he's not the type to dominate things like some people. i'm sure he'd collaborate with me on decisions unlike my ex.
LewisK (4/22/2007 9:44:00 PM): Lucky man!
imissedu (4/22/2007 9:44:39 PM): he's so cute
imissedu (4/22/2007 9:44:44 PM): can't help it
imissedu (4/22/2007 9:44:48 PM): lol
LewisK (4/22/2007 9:44:51 PM): I get the same with remarks afterwards
imissedu (4/22/2007 9:45:00 PM): oh i have plenty of remarks
imissedu (4/22/2007 9:45:03 PM): im' happy for you
imissedu (4/22/2007 9:45:07 PM): haven't got my wedding invite yet htough
imissedu (4/22/2007 9:45:11 PM): where's my invitiation
imissedu (4/22/2007 9:45:17 PM): you have to have a reception ehre
LewisK (4/22/2007 9:45:28 PM): Yes
imissedu (4/22/2007 9:45:38 PM): sooooooooooooooo
imissedu (4/22/2007 9:45:39 PM): where is it
imissedu (4/22/2007 9:45:50 PM): you ready? only a couple months now i thought
imissedu (4/22/2007 9:45:50 PM): ?
LewisK (4/22/2007 9:46:18 PM): Maybe, I dont know yet
imissedu (4/22/2007 9:46:22 PM): what?
LewisK (4/22/2007 9:47:14 PM): She's too head strong. I have to be the leader.
imissedu (4/22/2007 9:47:14 PM): you need weak
imissedu (4/22/2007 9:47:18 PM): so you can have your way
imissedu (4/22/2007 9:47:19 PM): lol
imissedu (4/22/2007 9:47:25 PM): she's strong?
LewisK (4/22/2007 9:47:33 PM): strong minded
imissedu (4/22/2007 9:47:39 PM): i'm strong willed too! you know that though...lol but when i trust that he'll make a decision good for us...it's good for a woman to feel like she can trust her man. even strong willed women don't really want to be in charge all the time. mostly i think it ends up that way because for whatever reason they don't see him as capable as being a leader. in that case i'd suggest not even getting involved with that person.
imissedu (4/22/2007 9:47:42 PM): you know...
imissedu (4/22/2007 9:47:53 PM): that trust has to come before you can let someone in the driver's seat of your life
LewisK (4/22/2007 9:48:18 PM): good theory
LewisK (4/22/2007 9:48:41 PM): Ryan is a lucky dude to have you.
imissedu (4/22/2007 9:48:54 PM): oh i'm lucky too
imissedu (4/22/2007 9:48:56 PM): he's my baby
imissedu (4/22/2007 9:49:07 PM): makes me feel special
imissedu (4/22/2007 9:49:11 PM): puts up with my mood swings
imissedu (4/22/2007 9:49:14 PM): good guy
LewisK (4/22/2007 9:49:17 PM): If we could have gotten past your distant attitude we probably would have made it
imissedu (4/22/2007 9:53:33 PM): oh
imissedu (4/22/2007 9:53:34 PM): yeah
imissedu (4/22/2007 9:53:38 PM): but oh well
imissedu (4/22/2007 9:53:44 PM): that was nearly two years ago
imissedu (4/22/2007 9:53:47 PM): so what can we do
LewisK (4/22/2007 9:53:49 PM): lol
imissedu (4/22/2007 9:53:53 PM): you went and got yourself engaged so be happy duh!
LewisK (4/22/2007 9:53:58 PM): lol
LewisK (4/22/2007 9:54:08 PM): I can leave her for you
imissedu (4/22/2007 9:54:27 PM): oh what a good liar you are
LewisK (4/22/2007 9:54:34 PM): and she knows it
imissedu (4/22/2007 9:54:41 PM): she knows what?
LewisK (4/22/2007 9:55:01 PM): She think you and I were more than just friends.
imissedu (4/22/2007 9:55:07 PM): still? Geez.
imissedu (4/22/2007 9:55:08 PM): shut up
imissedu (4/22/2007 9:55:10 PM): why?
imissedu (4/22/2007 9:55:13 PM): we never even kisses
LewisK (4/22/2007 9:55:15 PM): I told her that we never got together
imissedu (4/22/2007 9:55:16 PM): kissed
imissedu (4/22/2007 9:55:33 PM): well
imissedu (4/22/2007 9:55:42 PM): i don't like some of ryan's female "friends" either but generally there's a good reason
imissedu (4/22/2007 9:55:43 PM): lol
imissedu (4/22/2007 9:55:47 PM): so i know how she feels
LewisK (4/22/2007 9:55:50 PM): She thinks that if we break up I would get with you.
imissedu (4/22/2007 9:55:57 PM): does she really?
imissedu (4/22/2007 9:55:58 PM): wow
imissedu (4/22/2007 9:56:02 PM): i am special! I hope you tell her no worries with me. I'm not a homewrecker
LewisK (4/22/2007 9:56:12 PM): Yes you are special
LewisK (4/22/2007 9:56:16 PM): Yep!
LewisK (4/22/2007 9:56:19 PM): lol
LewisK (4/22/2007 9:56:40 PM): I would do it ASAP!
imissedu (4/22/2007 9:56:47 PM): no you wouldn't
LewisK (4/22/2007 9:57:42 PM): Yes I would. I never got along with woman for so long without you getting on my nerves.lol
LewisK (4/22/2007 9:57:53 PM): another woman
imissedu (4/22/2007 10:00:50 PM): riiiiiiiiiiiiiiiight
imissedu (4/22/2007 10:00:53 PM): my goodness
imissedu (4/22/2007 10:00:58 PM): we've known each other how long
imissedu (4/22/2007 10:01:02 PM): almost 3 years
LewisK (4/22/2007 10:01:54 PM): You didnt won't me the first time around and the second time I saw some interest.
imissedu (4/22/2007 10:02:20 PM): oh did you?
imissedu (4/22/2007 10:02:22 PM): funny
LewisK (4/22/2007 10:02:35 PM): No, I'm talking about you
imissedu (4/22/2007 10:02:44 PM): no i mean
imissedu (4/22/2007 10:02:48 PM): you think you saw interest
imissedu (4/22/2007 10:02:49 PM): that's funny
LewisK (4/22/2007 10:02:56 PM): from you
imissedu (4/22/2007 10:02:59 PM): i know
imissedu (4/22/2007 10:03:00 PM): what you mean
imissedu (4/22/2007 10:03:04 PM): you are interested in me and you think i reciprocated. i'm not sure what you saw
imissedu (4/22/2007 10:03:06 PM): and i don't know where this convo is going now
LewisK (4/22/2007 10:03:17 PM): I always have been interested
LewisK (4/22/2007 10:03:22 PM): Still am
LewisK (4/22/2007 10:03:32 PM): Sorry for being honest
imissedu (4/22/2007 10:04:53 PM): no
imissedu (4/22/2007 10:04:56 PM): wow
imissedu (4/22/2007 10:05:02 PM): i don't know what to say
imissedu (4/22/2007 10:05:05 PM): you are engaged
imissedu (4/22/2007 10:05:08 PM): why did you do that if you don't know
imissedu (4/22/2007 10:05:18 PM): in bible days you're like married right now
LewisK (4/22/2007 10:05:19 PM): If
LewisK (4/22/2007 10:05:34 PM): If I wanted to leave her you are still taken
imissedu (4/22/2007 10:05:48 PM): yeah, i really am
imissedu (4/22/2007 10:05:51 PM): yep yep yep
LewisK (4/22/2007 10:06:52 PM): Would you be willing to leave him to be with me?
imissedu (4/22/2007 10:07:01 PM): what?! no...are you?
LewisK (4/22/2007 10:07:08 PM): YES
LewisK (4/22/2007 10:07:57 PM): I haven't been happy for a while
imissedu (4/22/2007 10:08:04 PM): wow...that has like nothing to do with me though.
LewisK (4/22/2007 10:08:21 PM): lol
imissedu (4/22/2007 10:08:23 PM): don't get married if you aren't happy duh
LewisK (4/22/2007 10:09:23 PM): I was working on it through counciling
imissedu (4/22/2007 10:09:48 PM): you can't make what God didn't intend work
imissedu (4/22/2007 10:09:56 PM): you ought to know better
LewisK (4/22/2007 10:11:41 PM): I like you because you kept it real with me
imissedu (4/22/2007 10:12:29 PM): i'm sorry. i have to go ryan's looking bored on the couch. he needs company
imissedu (4/22/2007 10:12:36 PM): i don't wanna be rude to him
LewisK (4/22/2007 10:12:40 PM): Tomorrow lunch?
imissedu (4/22/2007 10:12:45 PM): ttyl
LewisK (4/22/2007 10:13:08 PM): Ok, bye lady
imissedu (4/22/2007 10:13:12 PM): bye bye

 

[Sistaslick]

You saved the transcripts?

 

[lisana]

Just proves that a trifling ho will say anything to get into someone's pants.

 

[prettynina]

Some people have no shame

 

[Je Ne Sais Quoi]

I don't think blossom was necessarily right. I doubt that even with the ring on his finger he will be faithful. He's a DOG erplexed

 

[Maa Maa omo mti]

wow

that was some interesting read

 

[BackToMyRoots]

Re: some dudes are just SOOO D@MN TRIFLING!! was blossssom right?

I doubt this guy will believe in it when he is married

That's right. Marriage is not some miraculous elixir that changes people into ideal mates. Unmarried or married dogs have doggish intentions.

 

[gone_fishing]

You saved the transcripts?

Not really. The transcript is deleted on messenger but I sent the convo to my best firiend on myspace and she responded to it so the message was still attached to her response. I had to do some digging to find it.

I had sent it to her asking if she thought I handled it appropriately. At the end of the conversation I felt like I wasn't hard enough on him but I didn't want to argue I was just looking for an exit from the convo.

After that he tried to get me to meet him for lunch several times before his wedding but I refused. I haven't seen him at all in many many months but he still tries to get me to meet him for lunch. I just keep saying no. I even got an invite from his mother to go to their reception August 10. I just may go with Ryan.

He has some travel business he is running that he wants to get me involved with. I told him I'm open to discussing business but only if his wife and Ryan are going to be there.

 

[BackToMyRoots]

I don't think blossom was necessarily right. I doubt that even with the ring on his finger he will be faithful. He's a DOG erplexed

Yea. It's not like once you get married your husband's pee pee will be protected by the "force" against all "foreign soil".

 

[Je Ne Sais Quoi]

Yea. It's not like once you get married your husband's pee pee will be protected by the "force" against all "foreign soil".

I agree. I don't agree with the philosophy some do here about "no ring, your available". I think thats hogwash.

 

[Sistaslick]

After that he tried to get me to meet him for lunch several times before his wedding but I refused. I haven't seen him at all in many many months but he still tries to get me to meet him for lunch. I just keep saying no. I even got an invite from his mother to go to their reception August 10. I just may go with Ryan.

Ohh okay!

But even after all that, you're still thinkin' about going? I think I'd feel a lil odd or something sharing in their "day" especially being that homeskillet was trying to use me to ruin it.

I don't know, sounds like that wife is in for a ride with this guy.

 

[gone_fishing]

Yea. It's not like once you get married your husband's pee pee will be protected by the "force" against all "foreign soil".

foreign and domestic and extraterrestrial...

I don't generally rely on men like that to be all that picky about where he plants his flag.

 

[Je Ne Sais Quoi]

Ohh okay!

But even after all that, you're still thinkin' about going? I think I'd feel a lil odd or something sharing in their "day" especially being that homeskillet was trying to use me to ruin it.

I don't know, sounds like that wife is in for a ride with this guy.

Yeah, her and EVERY OTHER WOMAN. pun INTENDED