So who took what?

[sylver2]

of course you've accumulated tons of junk together. so who takes the pictures, china, wedding gifts, furniture, cds, dvds, plates. beds, books, etc etc etc?? did u actually sit down and discuss that with each other or was it written up in divorce papers

 

[OhSoOthentik]

I took the things I brought into the marriage and things I paid for or were purchased by my friends/family. He did the same. Very simple, no arguments.

 

[sylver2]

yeah but it gets tricky if you'd been married a decade or longer

 

[Klearli]

What about things y'all went half on? Or photo albums?

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[Zaynab]

Hmm... would a man want the photos and china?

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[Zaynab]

I could see man taking electronics and women getting accents, china, dishes, furniture, etc

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[sylver2]

I could see man taking electronics and women getting accents, china, dishes, furniture, etc

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nah i'd want my electronics too

 

[leona2025]

sylver2 I got everything. We didn't really talk about it. I just kept everything. Besides most of the 7 years we were together I was the sole person working and I paid for all this stuff. All he took was his clothes and a photo album of his family back in Kenya.

 

[Lucie]

I kept the apartment, my car, and all that came with the apartment. I also gave him back all of his momentos, my wedding dress, pictures, marriage license, love letters, et cetera. He took his clothes, paperwork concerning him, DVDs and books.

 

[LilMissRed]

I took everything (even his comic books ) he took his car and clothes (and the IRS bill)

 

[prettygrl]

I gave him everything willingly. I wanted to start fresh and didn't want any reminders of the life we had together.

except for my baby's furniture.

 

[daydreem2876]

He took it all execpt my clothes and personal effects that I had already stashed in my trunk.

 

[ONAMSHN]

I would only take things that I purchased based solely on my needs/wants! He could keep the rest...as a fresh start would be a MUST for me!

 

[ThickHair]

I told him to take what he wanted when he rolled, but he said nah. He took all his personal items and Dave Chapelle 1st season. That Ninja left me with the 2nd season.

 

[Misshairdiva]

The only thing my soon to be ex wants is the his bedroom furniture and office furntiure. I will give him extra stuff that we have more then one set of like pots and pans, plates ect.

 

[Evolving78]

i got the kids and furniture, household appliances, car etc... he got the big flat screen, computer, other electronic gadgets.

 

[Fab_Nikki]

I left all the furniture. I took all my belongings, papers that would matter, pics (for the most part) and rolled. The only picture I left behind, accidently, I found out he broke it on purpose. It was an oil painting of me from when I was young that my uncle had someone paint in Japan. That muthasucka....*grrrrrrrrrr*

 

[Ladybelle]

I left all the furniture. I took all my belongings, papers that would matter, pics (for the most part) and rolled. The only picture I left behind, accidently, I found out he broke it on purpose. It was an oil painting of me from when I was young that my uncle had someone paint in Japan. That muthasucka....*grrrrrrrrrr*

Thats what I did. I just wanted out. He still doesnt appreciate or respect that I could have really took it all under the circumstances, but I will let time deal with him. The chickens always come home to roost.

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[Fab_Nikki]

Thats what I did. I just wanted out. He still doesnt appreciate or respect that I could have really took it all under the circumstances, but I will let time deal with him. The chickens always come home to roost.

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Sooo true. My ex called me a month before I married my DH and professed his still undying love for me. Mind you he didn't even know were were divorced. LOL I said "Yeaaaah about that we're divorced AND I am getting married next month". FOOL!

BTW It is such a relief to be able to start over fresh, so congratulations to you on your new start.

 

[Ladybelle]

Sooo true. My ex called me a month before I married my DH and professed his still undying love for me. Mind you he didn't even know were were divorced. LOL I said "Yeaaaah about that we're divorced AND I am getting married next month". FOOL!

BTW It is such a relief to be able to start over fresh, so congratulations to you on your new start.

Lo!l at him not knowing you all were divorced. And, it is good to start fresh, thanks!

 

[alwaysinchrist]

He came in with nothing n he left with nothing. I was angry for him giving soo fast but it worked out for the best. This time im letting the Lord pick my husband.