**SaSSy**
3rd Big Chop on 7/18/2016
There's this guy I have been tight lip about I'm kind of interested in, but I am trying not to allow myself to because I notice every time I drum a guy up, he disappoints so this one I'm taking really slow. I show interest, but I think it's still kind of mixed so he can't tell too much. So for the last few days, we have been walking to the train station together and I notice he has an interest in me, but a few times I would mention something about me he would "Yea so my ex did xyz". It seems like when I would say something that reminded him of his ex he would state it. erplexed
Yesterday I mentioned I cut my hair about 11 mos ago from really long to short and how some people I know was shock and so forth, then he said "Yes, I remember my ex cut her hair"
So today, he had to show me pictures of him partying and what not, but then he came up to a picture of the ex and him. I was thinking she might look like me, but she's the complete opposite in terms of looks to me which might have been why he always mentioned her. So I finally said "Is she really your ex, or is she your sometimes ex when times are bad, etc. cause I know how that is when people get mad at each and they become temporary exes" He said "Oh no no, she's my ex, I just have a lot of respect for her"
So I feel like he's not over his ex at all, or what ever the case might be. It's strange, but I think he likes me and always looks at me all deeply and wants to show me things and be respectable, but I don't think anything will go past us just talking and conversing. Because he's not over his ex.
So this is why I didn't want to allow myself to get too close to him too soon and jinx it by talking about him, but he killed it himself by always talking about the ex.
Am I over reacting? Opinions?
Yesterday I mentioned I cut my hair about 11 mos ago from really long to short and how some people I know was shock and so forth, then he said "Yes, I remember my ex cut her hair"
So today, he had to show me pictures of him partying and what not, but then he came up to a picture of the ex and him. I was thinking she might look like me, but she's the complete opposite in terms of looks to me which might have been why he always mentioned her. So I finally said "Is she really your ex, or is she your sometimes ex when times are bad, etc. cause I know how that is when people get mad at each and they become temporary exes" He said "Oh no no, she's my ex, I just have a lot of respect for her"
So I feel like he's not over his ex at all, or what ever the case might be. It's strange, but I think he likes me and always looks at me all deeply and wants to show me things and be respectable, but I don't think anything will go past us just talking and conversing. Because he's not over his ex.
So this is why I didn't want to allow myself to get too close to him too soon and jinx it by talking about him, but he killed it himself by always talking about the ex.
Am I over reacting? Opinions?
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