So his sister doesn't like me...

[ThatJerseyGirl]

*lights up a newport one hunnit for dis bullshyt*

How did this post get by my radar...

But to you HAIRapy, no boolshyt..i would step to her bout dat cuz see i can't stand fake azzz bytches. All that bout some killin her with kindness is some bull. Kill her with some realness.

See, being nice and only saying hi to her with limited convo already lets her know that SHE knows wassup now cuz ur attitude towards her has changed. Game know game and her shyt is weak. Now you done gave that bytch too much control. I mean dayum, you already phuckin her brother...what da phuck!

I dont kiss azzz period and if it were me i would nip dat shyt in da bud now, especially if ur gonna be dating him long term, cuz see if you dont take control of da shytuation, its gonna get ugly.

Next time she come atchu wif dat fake ill-na na tawkin bout some "hey girl wassup" hit her upside da head wif *sniff sniff* i smell fake phuckery...do u smell it....you should cuz i think its comin from you" and take the wheel from there. You wanna still kill her with kindness, u still can. Uh huh sho can. Be dat ole nice nasty bytch. Feel me?

Let her know that its ok if she dont like you because at the end of the day when its all said and done you will still be with her brother....and will still continue to phuck him. WELL.

She'll git da hint. But be nice. NICE NASTY. And smile while you tellin her.

Stop givin these future bytchy azzz sis n laws n motha n laws control of yall and let'em know who da queen b is.

Dayum....i done let my newport burn out. Glass empty too. Lemme go pour me some mo henny.

 

[Mortons]

I'd be really careful about approaching someones sister. My brother would quickly shut down a chick for talking about me, no matter how horrible they may find me. I'm not sure how close they are, but messing with family will quickly find you on the curb in a lot of families.

 

[aleemah]

clearly it bothers you in some way and i dont understand why you just don't ask her what her beef is about. You dont have to be all up in her face about it and i am sure you know how to handle approaching her since you guys seem to have been open to each other at one point. What is killing her with kindness going to solve?? It will only create more tension between you two and eventually it will become uncomfortable for the 3 of you. Talking and asking questions is what solve problems not ignoring them. honestly, as a man your SO should be trying to really figure out what the problem is. She is his sister,right? Whats wrong with you and him both talking to her about this?? I think you guys are too old to not be able to discuss issues like this openly. Trust me, she has a reason for not liking you no matter how petty or immature it may be good luck and i hope you guys come to an understanding

 

[ThickHair]

*lights up a newport one hunnit for dis bullshyt*

How did this post get by my radar...

But to you HAIRapy, no boolshyt..i would step to her bout dat cuz see i can't stand fake azzz bytches. All that bout some killin her with kindness is some bull. Kill her with some realness.

See, being nice and only saying hi to her with limited convo already lets her know that SHE knows wassup now cuz ur attitude towards her has changed. Game know game and her shyt is weak. Now you done gave that bytch too much control. I mean dayum, you already phuckin her brother...what da phuck!

I dont kiss azzz period and if it were me i would nip dat shyt in da bud now, especially if ur gonna be dating him long term, cuz see if you dont take control of da shytuation, its gonna get ugly.

Next time she come atchu wif dat fake ill-na na tawkin bout some "hey girl wassup" hit her upside da head wif *sniff sniff* i smell fake phuckery...do u smell it....you should cuz i think its comin from you" and take the wheel from there. You wanna still kill her with kindness, u still can. Uh huh sho can. Be dat ole nice nasty bytch. Feel me?

Let her know that its ok if she dont like you because at the end of the day when its all said and done you will still be with her brother....and will still continue to phuck him. WELL.

She'll git da hint. But be nice. NICE NASTY. And smile while you tellin her.

Stop givin these future bytchy azzz sis n laws n motha n laws control of yall and let'em know who da queen b is.

Dayum....i done let my newport burn out. Glass empty too. Lemme go pour me some mo henny.

I wondered how this got past you also.

 

[LunadeMiel]

I'd be really careful about approaching someones sister. My brother would quickly shut down a chick for talking about me, no matter how horrible they may find me. I'm not sure how close they are, but messing with family will quickly find you on the curb in a lot of families.

exactly. Ignoring the sister may not get you the result you desire. You don't want to be cast out by his family. Most men will choose family over a girlfriend.

 

[spelmanlocks]

Your boyfriend should keep info like that to himself if you all expect to have a peaceful relationship. I don't believe people should involve their family in their relationship it just leads to drama. My DH told me something his mother said about me when we first dated and he regrets it to this day because it caused a lot of misunderstandings between the two of us.

Just be cordial. Maybe you two will grow on each other over time.

 

[HAIRapy]

Thank you all for your opinions ladies. NJ, you had me

ETA: I believe some of you have a different idea of being cordial and being fake than I do. IMO, being cordial is hi, bye, and small talk while getting to know one another- even if she didn't like me, I'd be fine with that. Fake is talking to me fairly regularly- calling me on my phone to chat, like we're vibing and were cool. For the record, it doesn't bother me at all that she doesn't like me. It's just silly to me and as I mentioned earlier in this thread, I just wanted to start a thread about it because I was bored and couldn't sleep that night (and no, she wasn't the reason I couldnt sleep ) and this silliness happened to come to my mind. I asked to find out how you ladies would handle it, just to start a conversation about it... not to ask for advice because the way I handle this type of foolishness has worked for me for YEARS, so I won't be changing it. I'm an open person and I don't hate her, so if something happens in the future that makes our relationship better, so be it. Until then, I don't have the time or patience.

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[CaribbeanQueen]

Sorry but your SO sounds like an instigator. Why cause problems between two women you care about? He should have kept that to himself. Who knows, maybe the sister could have grown to like you... but with you not speaking now, there is little chance of that.

 

[diadall]

I don't think your SO should have told you that. What was the point of telling you?