Look thru some magazines with him and ask him to point out the models or celbs that he likes their hair - 9 times out of 10 - it will be fake hair of some sort. If he mentions Bey, Tyra, Janet, Ciara, Rihana and any of the top 10 at any given moment- chances are we are wearing a weave or wig.
Try to find out what he dislikes - maybe it is a certain "unbeweaveble" color, texture or length and then COMPRISE! Explain that you can wear a weave that looks very natural while you grow out your hair.
Hey gal, I've been there before. Maybe the weaves don't really bother him, but he's just saying they do because he's tired of 'em and wants to see your real hair? Sometimes they start getting paranoid wondering if you have any hair.erplexedMy SO finally told me that he hates weave with a passion. Mind you, i've been wearing weaves for as long as i've known him.
He wants me to give it up, however, i'm not sure what to do?
What would u do if your SO had a problem with you wearing weave?
Hey gal, I've been there before. Maybe the weaves don't really bother him, but he's just saying they do because he's tired of 'em and wants to see your real hair? Sometimes they start getting paranoid wondering if you have any hair.erplexed
I have to agree with Meaganita, they do get paranoid and start wondering if you're lying about your real hair. When I was growing my hair out, I wore sew-in weaves. But every 6 weeks, I would have it taken out and wear my real hair for a week before having a fresh sew-in installed, and it made hubby so happy to be able to see and play in my real hair for that week. So maybe you should treat him and let him see your real hair from time to time; you know... pacify him.
My SO finally told me that he hates weave with a passion. Mind you, i've been wearing weaves for as long as i've known him.
He wants me to give it up, however, i'm not sure what to do?
What would u do if your SO had a problem with you wearing weave?
Hmmm... yeah most men I know don't care for them
but they don't even know it's a weave until you
tell them or something.... they don't know what they want.
What would u do if your SO had a problem with you wearing weave?
I don't even know how we got on this topic, but basically he hates that we (as black women) feel the need to wear fake hair ( his words were other ppls hair) as if its our own.
DH *thinks* he knows what's what. But he doesn't.
He used to my relaxed hair that was a little past SL. Especially when I'd let him comb it... he was so gentle. He loved the smell of castor oil in it and he bought me my flat iron as a gift.
BUT THEN.... I BC'd (dun-dun-DUN) and I wore a TWA, and then a BAA. I had no time to style my hair. I just washed it, combed it out and let it be. I did this for about 10 months.
When I finally got some C&G braids in, you would have thought I was Beyonce for all he loved my hair! I could have sported a Cousin It wig, gotten rainbow weave, or whatever, so long as my hair wasn't in that anymore!!!!!
My thing is you were wearing a weave when he met you. Why complain about it now? This reminds me of situations where men meet women at bars or clubs, and later insist that they stop partying. Well you didn’t meet her at the library or Christian Tabernacle. So what did you expect?