Since we're on the subject...what about Virgo men?

I've always had the best sexual relationships with Virgos. They are very passionate and aim to please. Virgo is complimentary to my sign (Pisces). As far as the relationships went it was a bliss most of the time but when it got bad, it got bad. There was a lot of back and forth with the first two. Mainly because they don't like to talk/communicate. A lot of breaking up and getting back together like we couldn't leave each other alone. My current SO is a Virgo and he's different. The complimentary thing is totally true this time.

ETA: I read that description somebody posted and it's different than all the others I've ever read.


yes, this is very true. they do everything to please you in this area to cover up their constant lying and infidelity.
 
yes, this is very true. they do everything to please you in this area to cover up their constant lying and infidelity.


Now see, this goes against the typical Virgo characteristic of loyalty. Everyone always says how Virgos aren't really the flirtatious, cheating, lying, unfaithful type...I guess it depends on the person.
 
it depends on the person
they have have been people I have been totally loyal too when in love
but there have been those other times:look:....
 
Now see, this goes against the typical Virgo characteristic of loyalty. Everyone always says how Virgos aren't really the flirtatious, cheating, lying, unfaithful type...I guess it depends on the person.


It must be the person. This man cheated so much it was a shame :nono:. Today, we are very good friends; they are very loyal in the aspect that they won't cut you off cold turkey.
 
I dunno
my virgo man was a philaderer also:lachen:Im also a pretty good manipulator and great at hiding my tracks. I never disrespected him or gave him a reason to not trust me but I did me also; It got old though cause Im not necessarity into the cheating thing Ive done it as a way to cope in a bad realtionship without leaving: I was in love with him and when he wouldnt stop I got tired enough and left. But that scenario is not a Virgo thing though that was just a relationship thing
 
They are loyal if they are really into you and you provide them with the emotional support they need. They'll definitely stick around through the good, the broke and the ugly...
 
They are loyal if they are really into you and you provide them with the emotional support they need. They'll definitely stick around through the good, the broke and the ugly...


That's a recurring theme too...they'll be loyal to you if you give them what they need. I'm the same way but I'm a Cancer. I'm very loyal and nurturing and expect the same from my mate.
 
That's a recurring theme too...they'll be loyal to you if you give them what they need. I'm the same way but I'm a Cancer. I'm very loyal and nurturing and expect the same from my mate.


For Virgos, this is a different type of loyalty. I mean, you an hurt them physically, get them locked up, spit on them, it doesn't matter; once you can provide something emotionally for them, they will always be there. I'm speaking from experience. :sekret:
 
I had a Virgo guy friend in college. I'm also a Virgo. My guy friend was a very nice dude, very respectful and friendly, smart and easy going. I am on the quieter side but I can be talkative at times when I'm comfortable with someone. Usually we are very cool (some might say cold), smart, analytical people. Some are neat freaks (I'm not). I've never dated a Virgo though and don't think I'd want to since I am one. I'd feel like I'd know them too well.

Here's something I found on the Virgo man. I think there is some truth to the signs but I don't take it as the absolute truth.

I thought all virgo males were. I know their the other kind of freak too:grin: I argued with my virgo so much...but damn I miss him sometimes...
 
To me, they are analytical and judgemental (ideologues). That can be good at times, but I don't always want our conversations to be a debate about something.
 
This advice here would get and keep me single...


Virgo Man

Being in love with a Virgo man means living in a practical world, where there will no be fairytale dreams. If you are too sentimental, then better take a u-turn right now. You will have to wait a long time to get him involved in a relationship. Even when he does, don't expect him to sing romantic poems for you or stand under your window to serenade you. It is not that Virgo men do not know how to love; just their way of expressing it is different from others. They are extremely dedicated towards their family and friends.

They are constantly involved in helping them and have a strong sense of work and duty. Too much display of emotions makes them uncomfortable and too conscious. A Virgo male will stick to you when you need him the most, care for you and dutifully carry out all the responsibilities a husband is expected to do. However, don't burden him with extreme sentiments, mushy affection and tearful promises. If he doesn't run away, he will become too cold and even the subtle display of affection from his side may come to a stop.

This doesn't mean that a Virgo guy cannot be softened at all. You have to keep the temperature just right. Too much aloofness or too much closeness is not what he wants. A little bit of sensuality, mixed with some intelligence and an interesting disposition is what he desires. To him, quality of time spent with you will mean more than the quantity. He is usually very cautious while forming a relationship. If it still doesn't turn out to be right, he will bury himself in work, avoid social gathering and be triply cautious with people.

Virgo men do not run after girls and romance. Infact, they do not mind being single at all. So, you will have to make a Virgo realize that he has fallen in love and needs to form a relationship. Remember, subtlety is the key to all this. If he wants, he can seduce you very easily, while being subtle all the time. He is not prone to flirtations, so you have no reasons to doubts his intentions. Infact, he is too sensitive, selective and honest to indulge in such kind of behavior. The love of a Virgo man is clean, innocent and pure, though it may take some time to win it.

Never expect him to fall in love with you at the first sight. He is very cautious about everything and that includes love and relationships. Lying will get you nowhere with him. He wants a genuine and honest relationship and cannot stand dishonesty even for a second. Stirring the emotions of a Virgo male is a very difficult task, because he never consciously looks for a mate. Remember, he does have a heart; you just have to sway it the right way. It may take time, but it will be worth the wait.

Once you have won his heart, you will never again feel unloved or uncared for, in your entire life. His love will burn for you with a steady flame, which will never flicker even for a minute. You will be rewarded with a husband who is totally sincere, patient, dependable and forever loving. You will never have to worry about stability again, whether it is emotional or financial. A Virgo man is not at all prone to wandering and you will never ever have to keep an eye on him. You will practically be showered with care and concern, whenever you need them.

He has a sharp memory and will remember even the minutest of details. You wouldn't have to remind him about anniversary or birthdays or other important dates. He may not understand why these days are so important to you, but he will remember them nonetheless. Virgo men are not too jealous, but they are possessive in the extreme. They very loyal and will expect the same from you. It is better to burn the love letters of your ex-boyfriends. Once something gets over for them, its over. Emotional appeals and tears wouldn't budge them an inch.

So, better play on the safer side. A Virgo man doesn't like dumb females, who are ignorant and stupid. You may be the hottest babe in the block. But, if you do not have brains, he wouldn't even look at you. Impropriety and rudeness turns him off. So, forget wearing that short, revealing black dress of yours. His kind of female has to be clean - body, mind and soul. If you want to win the love of a Virgo male, make sure that you have impeccable manners, spotlessly clean house, excellent cooking skills and decent dressing sense. He is prone to finding faults in others, but please don't give him specifics reasons to do so in your case.

He will be a very responsible father and will help sharpen the intellect of the children. He will also imbibe good manners, etiquettes and the quality of helping the needy in them. You will never need to worry about discipline, as he will work on that front too. However, you will have to teach your Virgo husband how to express his love and affection and control his critical behavior. When he becomes a little cranky, just leave him alone and he will again be his usual self pretty soon. With a Virgo man, you will have a tender companion who will shower you all with love and care, even when you don't look twenty anymore!
 
^^^^^^^^^^^ This is not indicative of any of the Virgos I've ever dated including my current SO. There are some bits and pieces I'd agree with but the rest not so much. I've also read several accounts about Virgos and they didn't say this so it makes me wonder how true this zodiac sign stuff is. Where'd you get it from?
 
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^^^^^^^^^^^ This is not indicative of any of the Virgos I've ever dated including my current SO. There are some bits and pieces I'd agree with but the rest not so much. I've also read several accounts about Virgos and they didn't say this so it makes me wonder how true this zodiac sign stuff is. Where'd you get it from?

http://www.iloveindia.com/astrology/sun-signs/virgo/man.html

This description is just wrong. But I guess since its in INDIA, culturally, it may be true.:look:
 
I just met a Virgo guy friend, and I'm a Virgo too!. He's sweet and romantic and talks a lot, OMG he can talk about work or anything. At first, I thought I was going to have issues with dating someone like me, but that isn't the case at all! I'm going to see where it takes us!
 
ima virgo and i cant date a virgo guy--not becuz he is a bad person or etc etc
but i dont think our sign matches well together--too much alike

ditto onthe loyal stuff--i am veryyyyy loyal to u if u r providing that emotional or etc etc--i am a ride or die person but if u cross me--its ova--u dont even exist anymore
also i have been unfaithful to some--they just didnt hold my attention--go har dor go home boo boo
 
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I'm a virgo and I've never dated a virgo man. I'm quiet until I get to know people and then can still be pretty quiet...I love analyzing things and people. I have a humble spirit w/ lots a fire--if need be..I always end up w/ Sagittarius men..so I have no idea what that's about..
 
I was in a relationship with a Virgo. I was not that into astrology but I have to admit there is some strong similarities about what you all are saying about Virgo men and with me being Aquarius. Yes he was loyal and was there with me through some good but mostly bad times. He did reveal alot about himself to me over time but it took some pulling on my part. He was extremely nice and still is. He was aloof at times but I am too and it sounds crazy but when I want answers I don't want anyone to beat around the bush. Fell in love with him and thought he was the one. And in the process he broke my heart into a thousand pieces last year. I mean a real rollercoaster ride with him. I have had worst breakups before but was able to get over them quickly but with this man it is not the case.


And he had the nerve to call me yesterday like everything was ok between us. Anyone else been through this with a Virgo man before?
 
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my SO is a virgo and he is very romantic, passionate, intellectual, and talkative. hes also really analytical
 
so stupid me (an aquarius) went ahead and dated another virgo for a few months, and found more of the exact same. 85 gazillion friends, but wouldn't open up to anybody. went out of their way to conceal stuff. entirely too aloof. he was way too philosophical. always wanted to debate with me about why the chicken came before the egg. the aquarius in me was like, "la la laah, i don't CARE!!!"

also extremely moody; when they were in a funk, they were the worst people in the world to be around. now the physical aspect was out of this world, because as mentioned before, they aim to please, and can be extremely passionate... but it wasn't worth all the effort trying to pull him out of his emotional shell. yuck! never again!
 
i'm talking to a virgo right now. he's a friend of a friend. But i looked thru his myspace pics before i actually met him. he too had a TON of friends, was a neat freak, extremely polished looking. everyone just seemed to gravitate towards him so im thinking...wow...this guy must have some persona. *yeah right. Well i finally talked to him and couldnt believe this was the same guy. He talked so much..but not in an arrogant way. He just talked. And talked. He bored me within our first convo. his sense of humor was non-existent. And he seemed so serious. I made a comment about his serious-ness and he was quick to snap back as if he didnt like the criticism. but he seemed very loyal, sincere, attentive, and respectful. Just like u ladies said. I can get down with that. But im a gemini....i need someone to keep up with my humor and my ever changing mind. And he just doesnt cut it. Its a shame cuz all the qualities he has i look for. But when there's no sparks..what can u do. Oh well
 
i'm talking to a virgo right now. he's a friend of a friend. But i looked thru his myspace pics before i actually met him. he too had a TON of friends, was a neat freak, extremely polished looking. everyone just seemed to gravitate towards him so im thinking...wow...this guy must have some persona. *yeah right. Well i finally talked to him and couldnt believe this was the same guy. He talked so much..but not in an arrogant way. He just talked. And talked. He bored me within our first convo. his sense of humor was non-existent. And he seemed so serious. I made a comment about his serious-ness and he was quick to snap back as if he didnt like the criticism. but he seemed very loyal, sincere, attentive, and respectful. Just like u ladies said. I can get down with that. But im a gemini....i need someone to keep up with my humor and my ever changing mind. And he just doesnt cut it. Its a shame cuz all the qualities he has i look for. But when there's no sparks..what can u do. Oh well
You described my virgo man perfectly.:look:
 
also extremely moody; when they were in a funk, they were the worst people in the world to be around. now the physical aspect was out of this world, because as mentioned before, they aim to please, and can be extremely passionate... but it wasn't worth all the effort trying to pull him out of his emotional shell. yuck! never again!

I forgot about the moodiness. That is why we broke up:wallbash:. He thought everyone was taking advantage of him and he needed his time alone. WTH!!!! And I am moody too but I don't take it out on everyone else. Are we talking about the same guy or what?
 
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