Since we're on the subject...what about Virgo men?

LivingDoll

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I have no experience but I would like to find out more...my new friend is a Virgo and so far he's rather chatty. He talks about himself a lot but he also seems interested in what I have to say.

What your experience?
 
I have totally opposite views. My hubby is a virgo and he is more on the quiet side. Im the one thats usually chatting up a storm! :lachen:
 
I've dated a couple virgos. They were really sweet guys. Very attentive and loving, but maybe a little to quiet for me.
 
I had a Virgo guy friend in college. I'm also a Virgo. My guy friend was a very nice dude, very respectful and friendly, smart and easy going. I am on the quieter side but I can be talkative at times when I'm comfortable with someone. Usually we are very cool (some might say cold), smart, analytical people. Some are neat freaks (I'm not). I've never dated a Virgo though and don't think I'd want to since I am one. I'd feel like I'd know them too well.

Here's something I found on the Virgo man. I think there is some truth to the signs but I don't take it as the absolute truth.
 
worst dating experience i've EVER had. i'm an aquarius, though, so that's probably why it didn't work out. he was too aloof.
 
The Virgo I dated is not a good example since he was a thug through and through, so I don't think his mind games had much to do with being a Virgo :rolleyes:

the only thing I can confirm is they're style is top notch. I have a few friends that, and their style is impeccable.
 
I :love: Virgo guys.

I'm a Virgo. :yep:

What do you love about them?

worst dating experience i've EVER had. i'm an aquarius, though, so that's probably why it didn't work out. he was too aloof.

What do you mean by aloof? distant?

virgo men make good liars
:eek::nervous2:...thats the last thing I need.




The Virgo I dated is not a good example since he was a thug through and through, so I don't think his mind games had much to do with being a Virgo :rolleyes:

the only thing I can confirm is they're style is top notch. I have a few friends that, and their style is impeccable.

mine talks about how he cleans up real well...i met him in his work clothes so I'll see. Our first date is Friday. :grin:
 
lots of zodiac threads today i see. :)

ahhhh virgos. i like virgos but.... i can't get into them romantically. they seem to be very practical, nice people with a little bit of adventure just not enough for me. the virgos i tried to date made me want to take a nap. i was just bored. the conversation was boring. nice enough people though.
 
lots of zodiac threads today i see. :)

ahhhh virgos. i like virgos but.... i can't get into them romantically. they seem to be very practical, nice people with a little bit of adventure just not enough for me. the virgos i tried to date made me want to take a nap. i was just bored. the conversation was boring. nice enough people though.

I can see that...my friend is chatty but he can be a lil boring sometimes. :yep:
 
I'm a virgo. My dad is virgo. My brother is a virgo. I've dealt with one virgo man in my life; I may not do that again he was too much like me.

I would say virgos are quiet, aloofish at times, smart, and they like things to be a certain way. Virgos tend to be loyal however they can and will hurt you when they feel a person has been disloyal to them.
 
I'm a virgo. My dad is virgo. My brother is a virgo. I've dealt with one virgo man in my life; I may not do that again he was too much like me.

I would say virgos are quiet, aloofish at times, smart, and they like things to be a certain way. Virgos tend to be loyal however they can and will hurt you when they feel a person has been disloyal to them.

Disloyal in what way? Just overall betrayal?
 
I had a Virgo guy friend in college. I'm also a Virgo. My guy friend was a very nice dude, very respectful and friendly, smart and easy going. I am on the quieter side but I can be talkative at times when I'm comfortable with someone. Usually we are very cool (some might say cold), smart, analytical people. Some are neat freaks (I'm not). I've never dated a Virgo though and don't think I'd want to since I am one. I'd feel like I'd know them too well.

Here's something I found on the Virgo man. I think there is some truth to the signs but I don't take it as the absolute truth.

This description was very detailed. I enjoyed reading it. Thanks.
 
daephae, when i said aloof, i meant that he wouldn't share what was going inside of his head. if he was upset, i'd ask him what's wrong, he'd tell me "don't worry about it". he was very stubborn and prideful; i bet if he was on the ground, bleeding with bullet wounds, and i'd ask him what happened, he'd STILL say "don't worry about it". :rolleyes:

i've noticed that the virgos in my life (both the one that i dated, and both my younger siblings, who are virgos), will go out of their way to conceal information that'd make people think negatively of them.
 
daephae, when i said aloof, i meant that he wouldn't share what was going inside of his head. if he was upset, i'd ask him what's wrong, he'd tell me "don't worry about it". he was very stubborn and prideful; i bet if he was on the ground, bleeding with bullet wounds, and i'd ask him what happened, he'd STILL say "don't worry about it". :rolleyes:

i've noticed that the virgos in my life (both the one that i dated, and both my younger siblings, who are virgos), will go out of their way to conceal information that'd make people think negatively of them.

:lachen::lachen::lachen::lachen:

oh okay...hmmm. that's good to know.
 
What do you love about them?

I guess because I imagine they're probably like me :look:


Naw, really, it's because they just have this simple, sensual thing going on. The ones I know aren't flashy, just neat and well put together, and they have this intensity about them that comes from out of nowhere. I would love to meet a Virgo right about now :yep:
 
I guess because I imagine they're probably like me :look:


Naw, really, it's because they just have this simple, sensual thing going on. The ones I know aren't flashy, just neat and well put together, and they have this intensity about them that comes from out of nowhere. I would love to meet a Virgo right about now :yep:

This describes my new special friend. :yep:
 
daephae, when i said aloof, i meant that he wouldn't share what was going inside of his head. if he was upset, i'd ask him what's wrong, he'd tell me "don't worry about it". he was very stubborn and prideful; i bet if he was on the ground, bleeding with bullet wounds, and i'd ask him what happened, he'd STILL say "don't worry about it". :rolleyes:

i've noticed that the virgos in my life (both the one that i dated, and both my younger siblings, who are virgos), will go out of their way to conceal information that'd make people think negatively of them.


that's way too funny! I know I like to hold on to my good girl exterior to the death, and I'm not proud of this, but I can be the master concealer. Oh, and I can never except help, or admit that I'm hurting...

I've dated two Virgos (I'm a V).

One was a great, great, great dresser, and had a very nice sense of style. He was talkative and tended to hog the conversation, and spoke an awful lot about his job/accomplishments, he is a musician. But he is a very nice guy, quite respectful, but there were no sparks whatsoever. We got along nicely and had really nice conversation, but it ended there. He's still my friend though, we grew up together. I kinda wish I could force myself to like him sometimes.

The other one, oh boy, def not a stereotypical Virgo. He cursed up a storm, was way too touch feely, and was a bit sloppy.

I would love to meet a semi- boring, practical earth sign right about now.
 
I've had my heart broken by two Virgo men:sad:

I'm a Cancer by the way, which is so odd because we're suppose to be so compatible.
 
:lachen:
this thread is a trip!
the virgo i dated had leo tendencies too: had 85 gazillion friends, was the life of the party... but when it came to one-on-one interaction, he was aloof, highly guarded, and had little to say. not even slighty romantic. he also wasn't big on traditional gender roles: for instance, instead of him being the one to call me, he'd want me to call him. he loved it when i'd pay for dinner (but didn't get the memo that i wanted to be paid for too... grr...)...

it felt almost as if i was courting him. some women are down with that, but as an aquarius, i like my roles to be traditional. i want the man to do the courting. i hate wearing the pants in my relationships!
 
Disloyal in what way? Just overall betrayal?

Disloyal as in doing something a virgo wouldn't do to you such as lying, cheating, embarrassing them in front of others, making front of them, playing games with them and etc.

Most virgos are not going to yell, make a scene, or tell somebody about themself. They will plan something, may mention it to you in passing, and execute the plan.
 
Disloyal as in doing something a virgo wouldn't do to you such as lying, cheating, embarrassing them in front of others, making front of them, playing games with them and etc.

Most virgos are not going to yell, make a scene, or tell somebody about themself. They will plan something, may mention it to you in passing, and execute the plan.

We don't forget a thing. :eyebrows2 :clubu:
 
I've always had the best sexual relationships with Virgos. They are very passionate and aim to please. Virgo is complimentary to my sign (Pisces). As far as the relationships went it was a bliss most of the time but when it got bad, it got bad. There was a lot of back and forth with the first two. Mainly because they don't like to talk/communicate. A lot of breaking up and getting back together like we couldn't leave each other alone. My current SO is a Virgo and he's different. The complimentary thing is totally true this time.

ETA: I read that description somebody posted and it's different than all the others I've ever read.
 
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lots of zodiac threads today i see. :)

ahhhh virgos. i like virgos but.... i can't get into them romantically. they seem to be very practical, nice people with a little bit of adventure just not enough for me. the virgos i tried to date made me want to take a nap. i was just bored. the conversation was boring. nice enough people though.

My experience, too. I'm a Cancer and I even found him to be quite boring as far as being a potential life mate. Me and Virgos are better off as friends.
 
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that's way too funny! I know I like to hold on to my good girl exterior to the death, and I'm not proud of this, but I can be the master concealer. Oh, and I can never except help, or admit that I'm hurting...

I've dated two Virgos (I'm a V).

One was a great, great, great dresser, and had a very nice sense of style. He was talkative and tended to hog the conversation, and spoke an awful lot about his job/accomplishments, he is a musician. But he is a very nice guy, quite respectful, but there were no sparks whatsoever. We got along nicely and had really nice conversation, but it ended there. He's still my friend though, we grew up together. I kinda wish I could force myself to like him sometimes.

The other one, oh boy, def not a stereotypical Virgo. He cursed up a storm, was way too touch feely, and was a bit sloppy.

I would love to meet a semi- boring, practical earth sign right about now.

OMG!!!It's sooo funny that you described these two different guys. I swear the last two guys I met (one is my current special friend) meet these descriptions to a tee. My friend now is description #1 (bday Sept. 10th), my last friend is description #2 (bday Sept. 11th). That's nuts.

:lachen:
this thread is a trip!
the virgo i dated had leo tendencies too: had 85 gazillion friends, was the life of the party... but when it came to one-on-one interaction, he was aloof, highly guarded, and had little to say. not even slighty romantic. he also wasn't big on traditional gender roles: for instance, instead of him being the one to call me, he'd want me to call him. he loved it when i'd pay for dinner (but didn't get the memo that i wanted to be paid for too... grr...)...

it felt almost as if i was courting him. some women are down with that, but as an aquarius, i like my roles to be traditional. i want the man to do the courting. i hate wearing the pants in my relationships!

Was his name Corey? :lachen:
 
I'm a virgo. My dad is virgo. My brother is a virgo. I've dealt with one virgo man in my life; I may not do that again he was too much like me.

I would say virgos are quiet, aloofish at times, smart, and they like things to be a certain way. Virgos tend to be loyal however they can and will hurt you when they feel a person has been disloyal to them.
Yes imma get you get back in the worst way possible:lachen:

daephae, when i said aloof, i meant that he wouldn't share what was going inside of his head. if he was upset, i'd ask him what's wrong, he'd tell me "don't worry about it". he was very stubborn and prideful; i bet if he was on the ground, bleeding with bullet wounds, and i'd ask him what happened, he'd STILL say "don't worry about it". :rolleyes:

i've noticed that the virgos in my life (both the one that i dated, and both my younger siblings, who are virgos), will go out of their way to conceal information that'd make people think negatively of them.

Yes nothing is ever wrong with me:lachen:
I conceal becasue 1. I can keep a secret
2. If its gonna leave me vunerable to anything imma just keep it to myself

I guess because I imagine they're probably like me :look:


Naw, really, it's because they just have this simple, sensual thing going on. The ones I know aren't flashy, just neat and well put together, and they have this intensity about them that comes from out of nowhere. I would love to meet a Virgo right about now :yep:

Yes Virgo men are sexy like that

I've had my heart broken by two Virgo men:sad:

I'm a Cancer by the way, which is so odd because we're suppose to be so compatible.

there is a cancer in my life right now:rolleyes:

Disloyal as in doing something a virgo wouldn't do to you such as lying, cheating, embarrassing them in front of others, making front of them, playing games with them and etc.

Most virgos are not going to yell, make a scene, or tell somebody about themself. They will plan something, may mention it to you in passing, and execute the plan.

I NEVER make a scene but while im quite and:yep: in your face im plotting on how imma destroy your life:lachen:

Im also very guarded with my emotions if i feel like your not sure of how you feel about me Imma back of and eventually stop caring. I never put myself out there first. Im very sensitive about myself so if you make a joke about my appereance i will be crying on the inside but will brush it off eventually. Im not into the romantic thing so I think guys are put off by that they think im weird. Im not into flowers and expensive gifts dont impress me.
 
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I've dated two Virgos. Here is the good and the bad. They are boring, hypercritical, insecure (because they are equally critical of themselves), miserable people and can be big time liars (mostly due to the insecurity again).

They tend to compare themselves to other people a lot which is a tendency I can't stand. I think if you provide them with a lot of love, reassurance and security, you could probably work with them. I believe they are loyal people. They have a good sense of humor, and tend to be intelligent and talented but oft times due nothing with this intelligence and talent because they are so miserable and insecure.

They make excellent frenemies, lol...
 
I've dated two Virgos. Here is the good and the bad. They are boring, hypercritical, insecure (because they are equally critical of themselves), miserable people and can be big time liars (mostly due to the insecurity again).

They tend to compare themselves to other people a lot which is a tendency I can't stand. I think if you provide them with a lot of love, reassurance and security, you could probably work with them. I believe they are loyal people. They have a good sense of humor, and tend to be intelligent and talented but oft times due nothing with this intelligence and talent because they are so miserable and insecure.

They make excellent frenemies, lol...

ouch:lachen:
Hey Im a good friend:yep:
its just that as quick as I can love you and give you my last
I can say oh well to the friendship. Its very easy for me to cut people off
even family if need be:perplexed

Yeah I know my self worth but at the same time the slightest thing will have me doubting myself completely
 
worst dating experience i've EVER had. i'm an aquarius, though, so that's probably why it didn't work out. he was too aloof.


Same experience and I'm an Aquarius also. I read a book once that says that Virgos "appear" to be our perfect mates but it never works out. Our perfect mates are supposed to be a Leo.
 
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