softblackcotton
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I met the guy online a few weeks ago. He seems nice enough. He's 25. We are in a getting to know you stage. I noticed right away that he had the annoying habit of marathon texting. We texted up to 2 whole days without even hearing each other's voices. He is also into concise, vague answers. It's a total waste of my time because you can't really get know someone through texting for hours on end. We are not dam teenagers. By the 3rd day, I was already up to my limit with his marathon half azzed texting. So I told him straight I don't take guys seriously who text all the time. He asked seriously? I said Dead Serious. He finally picked up the phone and called me twice. First call was good. On the second call, he put me on hold for about 5 mins. When he came back on he said he would call me back. Fast forward a few hours later, he texts me back and proceeds to try and converse through text instead of actually calling me back. I cut him off to go to bed. He has been texting me since that last call a week ago like he totally forgot what I told him. To remind him, I ask him to call me because I don't have time to be texting for hours and he says he will but doesn't. Then he has the nerve to text me the next day like nothing. Yesterday, he texted me, but I cut him short again and told him I didn't feel like texting and was going to read until I feel asleep. All he said was Wow! Okay. Then there is this other guy who texts me between 1am-2am. I answer him the next afternoon and tell him no texts after 11pm. The fool was actually offended! Ugh! Now just so you understand I've had poor experiences in the past with guys who use text as a primary form of communication when trying to get to know a woman or within a relationship. POOR horrible experiences that I refuse to repeat. My new standard is that if he can't call more than he texts, he is not worth my time or attention. My friend says I shut these guys down to quickly for something as minor as bad texting habits. However I feel it's a sign of them being not all that interested in getting to know me and they want to see how much they can get by doing as little as possible. Like most of these losers out here. What do you think I'm being too harsh and picky?
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