IDareT'sHair
PJ Rehabilitation Center
Using:
Jakeala's Shea Amla Parfait (ETSY)
Ed.en Body.works Coconut & Sh.ea Bu.tter
Jakeala's Shea Amla Parfait (ETSY)
Ed.en Body.works Coconut & Sh.ea Bu.tter
Subjected to pure laziness, Shea Butter can keep my hair good for 2 weeks. Right now, I’m only going one week. It takes about 2 days for me to really feel the softness (that’s how long my hair takes to dry).
I made a batch with Cocoa Butter, and I don’t think I’d be able to make it 2 weeks, more like stretch a bit over 1 week. Considering that even whipped Shea can be a bit “heavy” on my hair, the added butter gives “lightness” without sacrificing results. If that makes sense. I still get a really nice softness that’s kinda unreal
Anyway, I’m happy with this little deviation, because SB is good for the winter, but with weather change soon come, heavy is going to work.
No. Nothing.Do you apply water to your hair when you keep the Shea butter in for 2 weeks?
I see that P&J have a vanilla fragrance oil on their website. Has anyone tried it?@ElevatedEnergy ,
Can you suggest a brand of scents that has a really strong vanilla scent? I love sweet smelling lotion and stuff. I would like to try adding this. I asked about this up thread but no one responded, so I decided I better ask someone specifically.
@ElevatedEnergy ,
Can you suggest a brand of scents that has a really strong vanilla scent? I love sweet smelling lotion and stuff. I would like to try adding this. I asked about this up thread but no one responded, so I decided I better ask someone specifically.
They also have a French Vanilla oil.I see that P&J have a vanilla fragrance oil on their website. Has anyone tried it?
I missed your post. I know Elevated Energy has some great recommendations coming. I ordered vanilla bean fragrance oil from here
https://www.gracefruit.com/item/312/Gracefruit/Vanilla-Bean-Fragrance-Oil.html
Its the only vanilla fragrance I've ever ordered so have no comparison (other than the real thing). To me its vanilla scent is subtle, sweet and creamy. They also have a vanilla sugar fragrance oil.
I missed your post. I know Elevated Energy has some great recommendations coming. I ordered vanilla bean fragrance oil from here
https://www.gracefruit.com/item/312/Gracefruit/Vanilla-Bean-Fragrance-Oil.html
Its the only vanilla fragrance I've ever ordered so have no comparison (other than the real thing). To me its vanilla scent is subtle, sweet and creamy. They also have a vanilla sugar fragrance oil.
They also have a French Vanilla oil.
When you used it with your Shea mix, did the Shea consume the scent so it was barely detectable? Or, can you smell the vanilla really well in your Shea mix?
Lol I used the vanilla to calm the floral lavender essential oil I added to an already fragranced batch that I made with lemon verbena and pineapple. It did the job but is masked by the much stronger scent combination.
I'm going to mix up another batch today (using vanilla first) and will pay attention to the scent as it changes and report back.
How much fragrance oil are you all adding to your butter?
@ElevatedEnergy ,
Can you suggest a brand of scents that has a really strong vanilla scent? I love sweet smelling lotion and stuff. I would like to try adding this. I asked about this up thread but no one responded, so I decided I better ask someone specifically.
I see that P&J have a vanilla fragrance oil on their website. Has anyone tried it?
How much fragrance oil are you all adding to your butter?
My hair responded so-so to the shea butter, but I wasn't upset with this since my hair is so picky and hates almost everything. The shea butter added some flexibility and a little slip as I was finger detangling. It also added a little softness to my hair once fully dried, but not enough to be a hit or a reason to keep using it.
Sadly, the shine from it dulled as my hair dried, and now my hair has an odd, off-black sheen. I get an okay shine using it while my hair is still slightly damp, but once it dries it looks as if my hair is dark, dark grey. Overall, I'm not very happy with this.
I feel like I didn't get the amazing results that everyone else did, but that's honestly to be expected. I mean it when I say that my hair has almost never felt good using anything, so for it to give me just okay results just shows how lovely of a moisturizer Shea butter is. I think that whipped shea butter used lightly will work nicely for the majority of people.
I will continue trialing in on my hair in different ways, but I think I will mostly use it for my skin for now.
Did you whip the butter on its own or with something else? Also did you use it on naked hair or on top of a leave-in?
I whipped it with a little safflower oil. I use it on naked hair.
Y'all, I had the best wash day of my hair journey and I owe it all to Queen Shea. After so many years of flip flopping and looking for that "perfect line up", who woulda thought that it was an actual ingredient that would bring my hair to her knees and demand it to bow in respect?!
I started off washing with a shampoo bar. I took my time by pre dividing in my recycled parts. I washed in 7 sections. That was alot for me but I was able to not disturb the parts too much and keep the hair going in its designated direction.
Next I airdried while I made my Shea deep conditioner listed upthread. I like to deep condition on clean, dry hair which works in my favor as it gives me time to have assessed my hair and whip up something accordingly.
When I deep condition with Shea, I find that my hair likes it better when I allow it to work for long periods. So I kept the conditioner in overnight. Rinsed with warm water the next day while putting my hair in 4 braids to air dry. I still had a small amount of deep conditioner left, so I thinned it out with aloe Vera juice and squeezed it into my braids. Sealed it in with a chunk of Queen Shea and airdried. I don't even know how to descibe my hair. It's better than silk, satin or any fancy fiber I have ever encountered.
Queen Shea, I love you Girl and we shall never part!
Y'all, I had the best wash day of my hair journey and I owe it all to Queen Shea. After so many years of flip flopping and looking for that "perfect line up", who woulda thought that it was an actual ingredient that would bring my hair to her knees and demand it to bow in respect?!
I started off washing with a shampoo bar. I took my time by pre dividing in my recycled parts. I washed in 7 sections. That was alot for me but I was able to not disturb the parts too much and keep the hair going in its designated direction.
Next I airdried while I made my Shea deep conditioner listed upthread. I like to deep condition on clean, dry hair which works in my favor as it gives me time to have assessed my hair and whip up something accordingly.
When I deep condition with Shea, I find that my hair likes it better when I allow it to work for long periods. So I kept the conditioner in overnight. Rinsed with warm water the next day while putting my hair in 4 braids to air dry. I still had a small amount of deep conditioner left, so I thinned it out with aloe Vera juice and squeezed it into my braids. Sealed it in with a chunk of Queen Shea and airdried. I don't even know how to descibe my hair. It's better than silk, satin or any fancy fiber I have ever encountered.
Queen Shea, I love you Girl and we shall never part!
I whipped it with a little safflower oil. I use it on naked hair.
It might be that you need to add more oil to your mix and whip again? Also I'm not sure how pure the shea moisture 100% shea butter is, but we could assume that it is.
Have you tried adding a leave in first and then using shea butter as a sealant?
It might be that you need to add more oil to your mix and whip again? Also I'm not sure how pure the shea moisture 100% shea butter is, but we could assume that it is.
Have you tried adding a leave in first and then using shea butter as a sealant?
It depends on the fragrance being used. Fruits, florals, beach, or nature type scents can get very overpowering if too much is used.
For a 8 ounce Shea mix, I usually always start with 15 drops, mix in good, let it rest for a few days then test it on my hands. If it is not strong enough, I'll add in another 5 drops. However, I usually stop at 15.
For sweet, bakery scents, I usually always start at 25 and follow the same the same procedure.
I would say it's best not to overdo it. Someone upthread said they put an entire bottle in one of their mixes. We can very much become nose blind to fragrances and keep adding when it' not really necessary. The scent usually settles in and attches on to the butter after a few days. It's just like adding fragrance to wax, it needs time to "cure".
Let me check my understanding. Is it the Shea butter ingredient that gave these fabulous results? Or, was it the process? Or both? Could you clarify? Thank you!
This is pure gold. I've added it to the first page for our "findings" about Shea butter. I modified it a bit, due to length, not due to content:
Shea butter needs time for a scent to 'cure' within the mixture. Fruits, florals, beach, or nature type scents can get very overpowering if too much is used. For a 8 ounce Shea mix, start with 15 drops, mix in good, let it rest for a few days then test it on the hands. If it is not strong enough, add in another 5 drops. However, it is suggested to stop at 15 drops. For sweet, bakery scents, it is suggested to start at 25 drops and follow the same procedure. The scent usually settles in and attaches onto the butter after a few days. It's just like adding fragrance to wax, it needs time to "cure".