Mane.Attraction
New Member
A couple of friends and I were discussing how we have a mental checklist of qualities that we want in our significant other/future husbands, and we all realize the purpose of our individual "checklist" is so we don't settle for anything less than what we want from our significant other, but my question to you is:
Can a woman become too attached to her checklist?
Would you ever be willing to adjust you "criteria" (for lack of better word)?
And also, is your checklist centered around material things instead of characteristics and personality?
Also, do you have certain dealbreakers in your checklist when you're getting to know someone? (i.e. for me, if he's not Christian, I can't go NO FURTHER)
Some of my male friends that took part in our discussion seem to think that these checklists keep us from finding love instead of guiding us to it, and I just wanted to know if you felt that that's a true statement.
Can a woman become too attached to her checklist?
Would you ever be willing to adjust you "criteria" (for lack of better word)?
And also, is your checklist centered around material things instead of characteristics and personality?
Also, do you have certain dealbreakers in your checklist when you're getting to know someone? (i.e. for me, if he's not Christian, I can't go NO FURTHER)
Some of my male friends that took part in our discussion seem to think that these checklists keep us from finding love instead of guiding us to it, and I just wanted to know if you felt that that's a true statement.