blazingthru
Well-Known Member
Yes, I would forgive him. Of course I would have to work through that forgiveness and I would hope that he is punished for what he did but I would make sure my child gets the help he/she needed and thats pretty much it. When you forgive someone they cannot become public enemy number 1- you have to forgive and love them. Would I remain married no I would not, I would never put my child in that situation. This is the thing, this is the hard part. We have to put our complete and total trust in the lord when we choose a mate, if we did so we would never experience these kinds of things. When you forgive you have to forgive 100% like God forgives us and keeps no record. its hard harder then anything you have to go through but its really what you have to do. My ex abused my son. Not sexually but physically - it changed my son but I had to not change to much because I did not want my son to become a bitter and angry person. I still kept in contact with his father and let my son make a decision of whether he wanted to --now that he is grown and he has decided that does not want to. But he is not bitter or angry about it. He can talk about his father without getting upset. Thank God he forgives me for my sin.