aribell
formerly nicola.kirwan
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So, a good friend of mine is separated from his wife (her doing). There is no expectation of reconciliation, but my friend, for personal and religious reasons, doesn't want to file for divorce because he wasn't the one who chose to leave. He claims that he would never resume a relationship with her, but he did take things pretty hard.
In the meantime, he got on dating sites and met a nice young woman. They hit it off and began seeing one another daily (but not sleeping together). This has gone on for a couple of months, and he's only had great things to say about her. Tonight, she called it off with him saying that even though she liked him a lot, she felt like she was having an affair with a married man and didn't want to see him anymore so long as he was married.
He called me really upset that she broke up with him, saying it didn't make sense since he was such a good man to her, he was annoyed by it, what difference did it make that he was "technically" married since he and his wife don't communicate. I took her side and said she had no way of knowing what his real intentions are, or his actual relationship with his wife, since neither he nor his wife seem willing to file, and that any woman who knows her worth would do the same thing.
He was still upset (with his "ex-gf") when we hung up. He said another female friend of his empathized with the girl but thought she was overreacting. The girl's actions seemed pretty obvious to me, but what do you think?
So, a good friend of mine is separated from his wife (her doing). There is no expectation of reconciliation, but my friend, for personal and religious reasons, doesn't want to file for divorce because he wasn't the one who chose to leave. He claims that he would never resume a relationship with her, but he did take things pretty hard.
In the meantime, he got on dating sites and met a nice young woman. They hit it off and began seeing one another daily (but not sleeping together). This has gone on for a couple of months, and he's only had great things to say about her. Tonight, she called it off with him saying that even though she liked him a lot, she felt like she was having an affair with a married man and didn't want to see him anymore so long as he was married.
He called me really upset that she broke up with him, saying it didn't make sense since he was such a good man to her, he was annoyed by it, what difference did it make that he was "technically" married since he and his wife don't communicate. I took her side and said she had no way of knowing what his real intentions are, or his actual relationship with his wife, since neither he nor his wife seem willing to file, and that any woman who knows her worth would do the same thing.
He was still upset (with his "ex-gf") when we hung up. He said another female friend of his empathized with the girl but thought she was overreacting. The girl's actions seemed pretty obvious to me, but what do you think?
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