hillytmj
Well-Known Member
This is a long post about underprocessed/texlaxed difficult to manage hair.
I am so frustrated right now! I have been on my hair journey since Aug. 2008, and I've done everything recommended: stretching relaxers to at least 8 weeks, no combing except wash day, moisture/seal ends, reduce trims, no direct heat, etc. I have had great results; however, my biggest complaint is that I have several textures in my hair due to underprocessed relaxers.
I never, ever used to have this problem until I got a weave. I think the relaxer didn't fully take after I took the weave out (I had about 3-4 inches of new growth) so now that underprocessed hair is on my ends. I've tried everything in my power to avoid doing a corrective, but I'm finding more underprocessed sections throughout my hair. The problem is that my underprocessed hair is tangled and extremely dry. My grandma retouched me last night, and the breakage was awful; not due to the relaxer (she did the new growth only), but due to the comb pulling through these various textures. I seriously lost a lot of hair unneccessarily! (I'm a ride or die rollersetter).
What causes a relaxer to underprocess?
-Is it heavily oiled hair? Prior to LHCF I didn't use a lot of moisture or oil, and I've heard a lot of ladies on the board say they coat their ends prior to relaxing to prevent overprocessing. Could this be what's causing me to repeatedly underprocess?
Prior to my haircare journey, I never had this problem. My grandma wants to do a corrective; however, she insists on pulling the relaxer all the way THROUGH THE ENDS FOR EVERY RETOUCH ! I haven't let her do that because I read that's bad and can lead to breakage, but she insists it won't be bad because she'll rinse it out quickly. She does this to my aunt with no breakage problems, but my aunt has finer 3b/3c hair, so I don't know if that makes a difference compared to my 4a hair.
I know I'm venting, but I'm frustrated because I feel like I'm doing everything right but I'm still getting this breakage due to the different textures. Washing/detangling my hair is half the battle; daily maintenance consists of weighing my hair down with lots of moisture to get it to lay down and stop frizzing/tangling (since I don't use direct heat regularly). The easiest time i've had with my underprocessed hair is when I wore a flat iron style for two weeks (no frizz, tangles or breakage), but I don't want to risk longterm damage from regular use of direct heat.
I'm starting to think a corrective relaxer may be inevitable, but I want to stop whatever I'm doing that's causing me to repeatedly underprocess. I don't want to get a corrective every touchup.
Help!!!
I am so frustrated right now! I have been on my hair journey since Aug. 2008, and I've done everything recommended: stretching relaxers to at least 8 weeks, no combing except wash day, moisture/seal ends, reduce trims, no direct heat, etc. I have had great results; however, my biggest complaint is that I have several textures in my hair due to underprocessed relaxers.
I never, ever used to have this problem until I got a weave. I think the relaxer didn't fully take after I took the weave out (I had about 3-4 inches of new growth) so now that underprocessed hair is on my ends. I've tried everything in my power to avoid doing a corrective, but I'm finding more underprocessed sections throughout my hair. The problem is that my underprocessed hair is tangled and extremely dry. My grandma retouched me last night, and the breakage was awful; not due to the relaxer (she did the new growth only), but due to the comb pulling through these various textures. I seriously lost a lot of hair unneccessarily! (I'm a ride or die rollersetter).
What causes a relaxer to underprocess?
-Is it heavily oiled hair? Prior to LHCF I didn't use a lot of moisture or oil, and I've heard a lot of ladies on the board say they coat their ends prior to relaxing to prevent overprocessing. Could this be what's causing me to repeatedly underprocess?
Prior to my haircare journey, I never had this problem. My grandma wants to do a corrective; however, she insists on pulling the relaxer all the way THROUGH THE ENDS FOR EVERY RETOUCH ! I haven't let her do that because I read that's bad and can lead to breakage, but she insists it won't be bad because she'll rinse it out quickly. She does this to my aunt with no breakage problems, but my aunt has finer 3b/3c hair, so I don't know if that makes a difference compared to my 4a hair.
I know I'm venting, but I'm frustrated because I feel like I'm doing everything right but I'm still getting this breakage due to the different textures. Washing/detangling my hair is half the battle; daily maintenance consists of weighing my hair down with lots of moisture to get it to lay down and stop frizzing/tangling (since I don't use direct heat regularly). The easiest time i've had with my underprocessed hair is when I wore a flat iron style for two weeks (no frizz, tangles or breakage), but I don't want to risk longterm damage from regular use of direct heat.
I'm starting to think a corrective relaxer may be inevitable, but I want to stop whatever I'm doing that's causing me to repeatedly underprocess. I don't want to get a corrective every touchup.
Help!!!